Personal Trauma Diary - Incest Abuse By Brother

[digger]

Just a little reminder that this thread is posted as a personal diary.

The OP hasn't been back in a few weeks, and it may be that this discussion will be helpful to them if they come back, but it might be more appropriate at this point to either take your conversation to PC @Toriplays and @Sunshineturtle, or to start a new discussion thread for it.

 

[Sunshineturtle]

What is that?

 

[Toriplays]

What is that?

I have no idea Sunshineturtle.
I guess someone wants us to leave.
Feel free to message me offline.

 

[Sunshineturtle]

I have no idea Sunshineturtle.
I guess someone wants us to leave.
Feel free to message me offline.[/Q...

No i think it's a different type of discussion.? Not sure how to message offline..

 

[joeylittle]

@Toriplays, @Sunshineturtle - Digger was pointing out that this thread is a Diary thread. Generally, extended back and forths that do not involve the OP are better off in the other forums, or taken to private messaging. Or your own diary, if either of you have started one.

It's not a written rule - more of a practice that's evolved, here. It's easy to lose track of what thread you are in sometimes. That's why Digger pointed it out.

Hope that helps.

 

[Sunshineturtle]

Yuppers. That'swhat i thought. Thanks

 

[Toriplays]

@Toriplays, @Sunshineturtle - Digger was pointing out that thi...

Gotcha

 

[hermione]

Just wanted to say sorry you had to go through this my brother started sexually abusing me at age 12 for me and 14 for him and his friend and it went on for 5 years and i didn't tell a soul until a few months ago and now new memories are beginning to surface it is so hard when it is family who you are expected to trust and i do have good memories but some now feel tainted and like what happened to make him do what he did and it was pretty terrible i wrote some in my journal and it like made my therapist sad when she read it sometimes i don't believe it happened but my memories became clearer and its just sad...its hard and i get that i am thinking of you.

 

[Sunshineturtle]

Thanks Toriplays.... it's a rough time right now, but I'll make it through.. always have..

 

[Daisy23]

Just want to say that your not alone. I had it happen to me by a close family member too. He did the exact same thing to me. He told me that he was going to tell on me and I was going to get in trouble if I did not do the things that he wanted. It progress through out my life from the time I was 4 till I was 13. They groom you, brain wash you and control you. Especially when we were little girls. No one believed me when I told them either because my relative was always the "project" child. Your story helped me share mine... thank you for that. It makes me feel better knowing that I am not alone.

 

[Daisy23]

I never understood how sharing these horrible details were helpful. What? How? I am so glad that something good comes from it. No, you are not alone, far from it. Stay safe stay open to healing. Take it one day at a time.