LuckiLee
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Tag. You're it!
General Rant and complain thread open to all supporters
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Sweetpea76
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@LuckiLee that is the suckiest game of tag ever 
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Friday
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LMFAO. So true.@LuckiLee that is the suckiest game of tag ever
The HELPLESSNESS CRAZY wand, ka-THUNK.
((Who the hell upgrades to cattle prods?!? My self control was timed to the LAST field of rakes, not the electrified version, FFS.))
At least? They’re not boring?
FFS, man, there are BETTER ways to not be boring. Like “excitement”. Brick wall. Bang head. But this is Tuesday, so clearly? It’s rant 84 with a side of emotional blackmail. Grrrrr.
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LunaticOnTheFritz
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Well this is a rant thread so here goes...
I hate it when people blame me for being the way I am because of the crap they did to me. Somehow in life everything that happens is my fault and never anyone else's? Ever? I think not. If I had been treated with more loving care and like my development and life actually mattered maybe I wouldn't be the F'd up mess you see before you. After 58 yrs of the BS I'm lucky I'm not in a padded room in a frickin straight jacket. And anytime I stand up for myself I get dismissed or told I'm crazy. And then we just ignore that anything happened. Lovely way to live.
I hate it when people blame me for being the way I am because of the crap they did to me. Somehow in life everything that happens is my fault and never anyone else's? Ever? I think not. If I had been treated with more loving care and like my development and life actually mattered maybe I wouldn't be the F'd up mess you see before you. After 58 yrs of the BS I'm lucky I'm not in a padded room in a frickin straight jacket. And anytime I stand up for myself I get dismissed or told I'm crazy. And then we just ignore that anything happened. Lovely way to live.
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@LunaticOnTheFritz …MOD NOTE… this is the Supporter’s Rant Thread for things our PTSD sufferers do, than have do involving not throttling them.
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Insert Swearish Rant Here
This is a venting thread. While polite conversation will not be frowned upon -although possibly told to go f*ck itself with a cactus- abject swearing, dire curses, and anatomical improbabilities are the orders of the day. No plot necessary, or explanations required. Keep your invectives...
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What Is On Your Mind Right This Second?
...mine is my therapy session tomorrow... I almost don't wanna go.
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What Are You Feeling Today? Not Thinking, Rather Feeling! Can You Identify Yours?
I'll start. ................ I feel a greatly alarmed. I feel very angry. I feel cautious. I feel confused. I feel depressed. I feel disgusted with the influences of the world. Specifically tv and its content, as well as, gen. socially acceptable, societal hidden teachings. I feel distanced...
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LuckiLee
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He couldn't be a bigger 
right now!!!
Take your self pity to the curb. You have a beeeaautiful life and I'm not having it!! gfy! Ranger Man.
right now!!!Take your self pity to the curb. You have a beeeaautiful life and I'm not having it!! gfy! Ranger Man.
LuckiLee
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Oh yeah, let's pretend you weren't being a . Nope. Never happened. La la la. Nothing to see here.
Suck it!!
. Nope. Never happened. La la la. Nothing to see here. Suck it!!
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Oh yeah, let's pretend you weren't being a
Suck it!!
So… the purple eggplant… is just making me think “When viagra goes wrooooooong”.Best. Dick. Sub. Ever.
Freida
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I'm sorry - hate it when hes an eggplant ass!! (now there's a visual!)
Send him to his room and tell him he cant come out until he gets his shit together. If hes gonna act like a 2 year old maybe he should be treated like one
Send him to his room and tell him he cant come out until he gets his shit together. If hes gonna act like a 2 year old maybe he should be treated like one
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…or? You could be a dick.
Sick & damn f*cking tired of ^^^this^^^ being your choice.
There comes a time when being a dick, in the moment; and are a dick, it’s just who you’ve decided to become? Meet at the crossroads.
You CHOOSE how you treat people.
You choose the color you want to splash the scene with, and experience your own damn self.
Sick & damn f*cking tired of ^^^this^^^ being your choice.
There comes a time when being a dick, in the moment; and are a dick, it’s just who you’ve decided to become? Meet at the crossroads.
You CHOOSE how you treat people.
You choose the color you want to splash the scene with, and experience your own damn self.
Notgoodatnames
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Ok, I'm going to try this rant thing and see if it can help me move on with my day.
My partner took a night job, 11pm-7am 5 nights a week. Without giving me any warning or discussing it with me until it was pretty much a done deal. I know he's worried about money right now, however I asked him how it was going to work with his day job which is a business he and I run together and instead of giving me any constructive answers he basically gave me some macho bullshit about how he was 'just going to manage" and how other people manage to have 2 or 3 jobs. Two weeks into this and I don't want to be the arsehole who keeps calling him while he's sleeping because I know he's going to need to sleep, but I have no idea when that is and I need to be able to reach him and I can't and it feels like some new stupid way of avoiding me. I'm also equally worried about his blood pressure and the stress and the possibility that if he keeps doing this it's going to kill him AND that if he would just put a little more into the day job long term it would more than cover for the shitty amount he's making at the night job. However "managing" seems to be translating into working his night job and sometimes popping up to do the bare minimum at his day job. Which is kind of like when your kid wants a puppy and swears they will look after it, and you find yourself constantly picking up shit and shivering in the rain on early morning walks that you never signed up for. Yesterday we had an urgent situation that needed dealing with however he hasn't responded to any of my calls or my requests for him to call me, which meant me dropping everything and running out to do his job for him to protect our business and our client relationships. Then I guessed at what his input would be on two client proposals and emailed them to the client. It feels like his way of managing two jobs is to do the lower paid night shift one and leave me to do his job as well as my own at the business that is paying the majority of his expenses. Even then I wouldn't even mind covering for him if he had asked me, but its more like a hostage situation where he doesn't respond and I'm left with the decision whether to jump into the gap or to let the business that is paying his bills go to shit. At this point I'd rather just quit and get a paying job somewhere else and support him from it.
So here I am today, alone in a foreign country during a holiday, while my ex and my son are at my ex in-laws, and I like being alone, to a point, but I don't like being utterly alone forever running around trying to support someone with no acknowledgement and wondering if this is going to be the rest of my life. And I'm really f*cking sick and tired of trying to be positive, and trying to be supportive, and trying to be understanding, and just ending up alone over and over and over again dealing with a heap of shit.
(Disclaimer: I am ignoring all the good parts and the things he has done for me, because this is a rant and I need to be pissed off right now, and just because the good parts are there doesn't stop this situation from feeling both infuriating AND unbearable).
And I think I do feel a little bit better now, so thank you.
My partner took a night job, 11pm-7am 5 nights a week. Without giving me any warning or discussing it with me until it was pretty much a done deal. I know he's worried about money right now, however I asked him how it was going to work with his day job which is a business he and I run together and instead of giving me any constructive answers he basically gave me some macho bullshit about how he was 'just going to manage" and how other people manage to have 2 or 3 jobs. Two weeks into this and I don't want to be the arsehole who keeps calling him while he's sleeping because I know he's going to need to sleep, but I have no idea when that is and I need to be able to reach him and I can't and it feels like some new stupid way of avoiding me. I'm also equally worried about his blood pressure and the stress and the possibility that if he keeps doing this it's going to kill him AND that if he would just put a little more into the day job long term it would more than cover for the shitty amount he's making at the night job. However "managing" seems to be translating into working his night job and sometimes popping up to do the bare minimum at his day job. Which is kind of like when your kid wants a puppy and swears they will look after it, and you find yourself constantly picking up shit and shivering in the rain on early morning walks that you never signed up for. Yesterday we had an urgent situation that needed dealing with however he hasn't responded to any of my calls or my requests for him to call me, which meant me dropping everything and running out to do his job for him to protect our business and our client relationships. Then I guessed at what his input would be on two client proposals and emailed them to the client. It feels like his way of managing two jobs is to do the lower paid night shift one and leave me to do his job as well as my own at the business that is paying the majority of his expenses. Even then I wouldn't even mind covering for him if he had asked me, but its more like a hostage situation where he doesn't respond and I'm left with the decision whether to jump into the gap or to let the business that is paying his bills go to shit. At this point I'd rather just quit and get a paying job somewhere else and support him from it.
So here I am today, alone in a foreign country during a holiday, while my ex and my son are at my ex in-laws, and I like being alone, to a point, but I don't like being utterly alone forever running around trying to support someone with no acknowledgement and wondering if this is going to be the rest of my life. And I'm really f*cking sick and tired of trying to be positive, and trying to be supportive, and trying to be understanding, and just ending up alone over and over and over again dealing with a heap of shit.
(Disclaimer: I am ignoring all the good parts and the things he has done for me, because this is a rant and I need to be pissed off right now, and just because the good parts are there doesn't stop this situation from feeling both infuriating AND unbearable).
And I think I do feel a little bit better now, so thank you.
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