Sufferer Reaching Out One Last Time

[StarChild]

Okay @Chihuahua Mama, I'm a bit confused about your last post; Do you rant about the world and life in general? Or are you annoyed about an answer you got here on the forum? Could you please clarify this for a better understanding? Thank you in advance.

 

[Deleted member 28702]

I think that I am annoyed in general. @intothelight advised me to redirect my interactions in light of my inherent distortions. I think the more appropriate strategy would be to reinterpret my reactions to these interactions given my distortions. If I am so crazy and my perceptions are so unrealistic, then why are so many of you in this situation? Why have so many of you experienced trauma?

 

[StarChild]

If I am so crazy

Why am I the crazy one with distorted and unrealistic perceptions of the world?

First off, no one wrote or insinuated that you're crazy. It is very important, to not confuse what specifically was said / written, with what one thinks the other person might have meant by what they wrote. You received a gentle, respectful answer / suggestion from @intothelight. Again, no one here judged you or called you crazy, except for yourself... And that's the difference...

I think the more appropriate strategy would be to reinterpret my reactions to these interactions given my distortions.

I don't comprehend this statement. Who should reinterpret your actions? You? Or us? Could you explain this statement a bit further, please? - And what exactly are your specific expectations from the members of this forum? Maybe it would be helpful for you as well as for us, if you could express your expectations / fears more specifically?

 

[Deleted member 28702]

I'm sorry. I expected some understanding. I expected some compassion and empathy. I thought I expressed myself succinctly. I am obviously in the wrong place. I am not directing my comments at you or anyone else. I was just reflecting for myself and trusting that I would find a sympathetic audience. Again, I was wrong. Back to square one.