So I Managed To Allow My Husband

[Powder]

I'm already gone. I probably shouldn't have drove but I did.

Cars are easier to operate when in PTSD modes than a bike, for me, that's for sure. I couldn't keep the bike perpendicular enough to get out of the cul-de-sac. :rolleyes:

 

[Gs172003]

At the moment, don't even try to figure out anything......just get ' you ' back.


Give yourself th...

Thanks. I'm already starting to feel better

 

[Gs172003]

Cars are easier to operate when in PTSD modes than a bike, for me, that's for sure. I couldn't keep the bik...

Lol I'm trying to picture that

 

[Gs172003]

I think some of it has to do with him telling me I "opened a can of worms" with allowing him to be with me. I don't know what that's supposed to mean but I'm sure it didn't help.

 

[Gs172003]

Deep breaths. Focus on it. Inhale for 3 seconds, hold for a count of 1 then exhale as slow as you can...

I just now saw this. I'm sorry you're having trouble too

 

[Hope_N_Highwater]

I think some of it has to do with him telling me I "opened a can of worms" with allowing him to be with...

Since he was all lovey dovey with you afterwards, most likely he was talking about himself and how his emotional walls that he has been able to hold up got penetrated (no pun intended) also

 

[Hope_N_Highwater]

The good thing is with him saying that he obviously knows its complicated, and should not be surprised when you want to talk to him about it eventually.

 

[Gs172003]

I told him. I told him in text but I told him and he was OK. I was nice about it. I feel safer saying it from here.

 

[illusionist]

This is something you really need to ask him what he meant. That's a good way to open up the conversation with this.

 

[Gs172003]

This is something you really need to ask him what he meant. That's a good way to open up the conver...

Ok

 

[Gs172003]

To be honest I'm afraid to find out

 

[illusionist]

Before talking, hold a cushion.....a sign that you are in your own physical space, and want to remain that way.