General Stress, Stress, And More Stress.

[Sweetpea76]

My poor vet seems to have a lot of stress piling on him all at once. His ex is taking him to court, his mother is ill, and life in general is just rearing its ugly head. The cup is definitely overflowing. I feel totally useless for him, there is nothing I can do but listen.

Now I am adding to his stress because I am going through a health scare of my own and waiting on biopsy results. I did tell him my health issues, because I know it would have pissed him off to find out later that I did not tell him, but I still feel like I should not have. I think I just threw some gasoline on the fire.
Lots of frustration today... and guilt.

 

[safenow]

Hi Sweetpea.

Bless your heart, you did the right thing by telling him. Have no guilt. You did nothing wrong. He loves you. Yes, he is under stress, but so are you. I"m sorry to say, this is part of being alive. I do hope his mother recovers, and I hope your biopsy comes back benign.

Take some good cleansing breathes, get a cup of herbal tea and try to relax. You are doing the best you can. That is good enough.