Relationship @sufferers

[Deleted member 28812]

Is there something you would like to tell your supporter but never did?

 

[Justmehere]

Please stop trying to change me. I will never be good enough for you. You can't fix me. I wish you could.

 

[Tinyflame]

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry I disappoint you.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Please stop trying to change me how you want me to be. Please give me a chance to change, I cant change over night. It doesnt help when you minimize my past to me simply because you do like to admit it happened (because of possible guilt). And please pick up the book I bought or at least try to understand what im going through. Please let me vent so it doesnt come out worse ways.

I could think of more.

 

[Just-yep]

Please stop making me feel guilty for my outbursts and punishing me by ignoring me and withdrawing physical contact. Please stop telling me to not think about it, like I have a choice.

 

[Stickler]

Please don't tell me I am dwelling on the past too much...when I repressed the past until 2011 and so a lot of this stuff feels new.

Please don't think I do not care b/c getting around you is painful and overwhelming as well as enjoyable...and is therefore work.
People in general are work; I have agoraphobia and/or sensory overload issues.

Please do understand that I am TERRIFIED of you because you have the power to really, really f*ck me up badly.
I gave it to you.

Please understand that, while I'd be highly likely to survive a partial nuclear exchange, a natural disaster or zombie outbreak?
I have a horribly hard time dealing with normal life.
I get furious at myself for this...to the point of thinking of ways to kill myself often. It's scary yet reassuring to have all these suicide plans. Also...darkly funny...yup.

Please understand that I use a ghoulish sense of humor to keep me going, and sometimes I cross lines with it? And then withdraw, horrified, because I have hurt someone.
Part of my fear of people is fear of hurting them.

Please understand that when severely triggered, I may become extremely irrational.

Please understand...that you can't understand it unless you have PTSD too. :(

...Please understand I feel so alone with all this.

 

[Chimera]

Please understand that with all that you know about me, you don't know very much at all.

Know that I am in a state of flux, when stable, trying to maintain my health..
When unstable? I am just as lost as you are, and I really need to stop apologising for it...
I am so tired of being sorry, but still, I so often am.

Words, fail me a lot of the time.

 

[Ronin]

Nothing; as in, I say it whenever having the chance.

To ex-fiancee: Thank you for sticking up for me, even when you couldn't understand. I'm sorry I didn't thank you enough for the good times and was way over in my head. You mattered.

 

[Chimera]

@Cashew

:)

 

[EveHarrington]

Please stop making my disorder all about you.

--------I am not your personal fix-er-up project. I want to be accepted and supported, and unfortunately if many professionals trained in trauma couldn't fix me, neither can you.

--------My need for alone time isn't an indication that the relationship is headed downhill, that I am mad at you, and so on. My need for alone time is a direct consequence of my disorder.

 

[illusionist]

Please don't reprimand me like a child when I forget things.....it hurts more than you will ever realise.

 

[Tinyflame]

Be angry if you need to be but please don't yell, I can't take it.

A lot of life is too much for me.

I'm broken down but you can't see it.

Plese stop calling me an as*hole when I try to express myself. It's very hard for me to do & nothing to do with your fault & nothing expected or required of you. Please let me have a right to speak.

I am completely overwhelmed & devastated.