MelissaKH68
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Ok I am dating someone with PTSD, we are having issues with his ex-wife and her trying to control what is going on in our household. She has started to limit his access to his daughter because of me.
I had a spat with the child and dad was there, but she seems to think she needs to be involved in it. We have been together almost a year. He has stopped taking all medications 2 different times.
I didn't understand what was happening the first time but it was resolved. The second time he posted on his fb wall "Good bye Everyone" I was so upset because I am not living in the same place as him right now, because of these issues with his ex. I had to text the neighbor to make sure he was ok.
He is supposed to go talk to his ex today and find out just exactly what his daughter said that this is all happening. My question is, is it normal for this to be happening if they do not take all medication? I am so confused with my feelings and him not expressing his feelings I just am wondering if I am actually good for him or bad for him. He says I am good for him, but is he just saying that cause he doesn't want to be alone or not??? I do not know.
We have communication issues and I get to feeling insecure because he doesn't tell me anything. So just this last weekend is when I went back to our apartment and he stayed at the camper. I guess I am upset about the fb post and hurt that he chose to stay at the camper because his ex said I could not be around his daughter, and then the daughter didn't even come over. Yes, he stayed at the camper all weekend. He did state he was taking all medications again, so that made me feel better. What do you guys think??? I mean any input is helpful. I know this post is all over the place but I just want to get it all out there.
I had a spat with the child and dad was there, but she seems to think she needs to be involved in it. We have been together almost a year. He has stopped taking all medications 2 different times.
I didn't understand what was happening the first time but it was resolved. The second time he posted on his fb wall "Good bye Everyone" I was so upset because I am not living in the same place as him right now, because of these issues with his ex. I had to text the neighbor to make sure he was ok.
He is supposed to go talk to his ex today and find out just exactly what his daughter said that this is all happening. My question is, is it normal for this to be happening if they do not take all medication? I am so confused with my feelings and him not expressing his feelings I just am wondering if I am actually good for him or bad for him. He says I am good for him, but is he just saying that cause he doesn't want to be alone or not??? I do not know.
We have communication issues and I get to feeling insecure because he doesn't tell me anything. So just this last weekend is when I went back to our apartment and he stayed at the camper. I guess I am upset about the fb post and hurt that he chose to stay at the camper because his ex said I could not be around his daughter, and then the daughter didn't even come over. Yes, he stayed at the camper all weekend. He did state he was taking all medications again, so that made me feel better. What do you guys think??? I mean any input is helpful. I know this post is all over the place but I just want to get it all out there.
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