the person i am talking about, is a professional, but not in that area, she helps me with tbi stuff
getting a bit better, at least being able to do the basics of life on my own and stay calm and happy.
The feeling that the things you talk about are hurting or causing harm to the person hearing it, is really common. I can't count the number of times I've read something like that here on the forum. If it's a professional, it's not harming them. It's also the reason that therapists have therapists, so that they can help their clients without getting hurt themselves.