Wanted to add another. I just spoke with my dad and he said the most supportive and wonderful things to me. He told me that he loved me and would always be "for" me as long as he was living. He offered to help me out financially (yes, I feel 15 again) due to the job situation. He told me that I didn't deserve all that has come my way in life as there has been so much that has been and is bad, and so much that has been and is stressful. He complimented me in saying that he didn't know how I was still alive when dealing with everything that I've had to deal with (he doesn't know the half of it, really, because if he did I think his heart would break) and that he was amazed I was still trying to make a go of life. So many lovely and positive things. It kind of took me by surprise as he usually doesn't speak in such a way to me. Just very kind of him so I am grateful that our relationship has reached this level even after the recent debacles with my sister. I feel blessed and grateful to have him as my dad and I also feel very grateful to have a heavenly father who has carried me through all that I've had to endure and push through in life and still have ahead of me. If it weren't for His grace, I would not be here at all. VB