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What Do You Like To Do For An Evening Out?

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KwanYingirl

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I've had a busy week! Three concerts, two of them at a wonderful venue in rural Maine that is down a dirt road and is a post and beam barn. It attracts many artists that I like-mostly folk, country-folk, bluegrass. They serve great food and even though it is expensive and an hour and a half ride, I love going there. Twice in one week-I'm pooped out.

I don't like crowds, but I do enjoy music concerts and movies. Occasional dinner out. But I don't invite friends over for dinner or just to hang out. My house has become my safe place and I don't like to upset the mood.

What do you like to do for an evening out?
 
I am glad you can go to those things, KwanYingirl. That is the kind of music we like, too. We have live music in our town's park in the summer, but I can only handle about half an hour . . . by then I get way overwhelmed and have to leave. I don't go to movies for the same reason. What I do like to do is go out for dinner and have a drink or two. It's a real treat for me to not have to cook dinner :-).
 
I love to go to live performances. I haven't been to one this winter but we have great university venue an hour away. There's all kinds of performances every year.
I like to go to modern dance, acrobatics, cultural dance shows. Taiko drummers, Cirque de Soleil type stuff, Chinese acrobats. There's something about a live performance that can't be beat. I even got the kids to go with me to (opera!) Mozart's Magic Flute in a full period production. Homeschool credit for them, fun for me :)
My husband works in the evenings so a nice evening for me is when we are home together and watching Netflix and talking about stuff.
 
Gawd. I've been seriously racking my brain over here. This is something people do, right? Have an evening out?

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I haven't done most of these in a wicked long time.

Concerts. Bonfires at the beach. Sleeping bags in the back of the truck bed and watching the stars listening to music or silence. Skinny dipping. Sledding. Night-Skiing (boarding). Urban spelunking. Pub with friends.
 
I can't remember the last time my wife and I had an evening out.

Today is our second wedding anniversary. I have been going through so many different emotions all day that I am exhausted.

She just went to pick up our dinner.

Today was mentally intense for us.

I am hoping today will be the beginning back to each other and spend a night out.
 
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