.................This get's a little bit tricky in that I like these things about myself, but how can I like them most about myself? It would seem that there are only a few things one could like most about themselves, otherwise it would no longer me favored and mostly liked. (LOL)
These are things which I like about myself:
I'm a good person.
I'm bright in a few specialized areas of interest to me.
I'm no fool.
I'm generally very aware, observant and have great attention and memory recall to detail.
Far more often than not, I have been and still am able to feel empathy and compassion deeply.
I am genrally able to look at something from many angles and points of view.
I mostly value the principle of Win/Win and consider it often while putting it into action and striving for improvements in reaching and consistently living up to this pers. value.
I can be be both a follower and leader. I'm fitted well for both roles, and for a period of time. And, I'm flexible in most cases and can accomodate others.
.................(Only after many signs of pers. abuse toward me, or those I love, with a re-occuring theme of 'Hooray for me and fk you attitude.' I admit I do cease to become flexible for a period of time, and, will seek to and lead the abuser or (s) to eat their very indifference and attitude.) Pardon me for this brutal honesty here, but I can't let this thread get soft and to mushy. (LOL) .........Quite clearly this is something that I don't like about myself.
But, what I do like about myself is I earnestly value truth, change and a willingness to learn, educate and grow, mental health, character building, a continuing goal of self-improvement, sifting, sorting through pers. trauma messes, my own pers. wreckage and rectifying it all.
I'm slowly pinpointing and elimating other people's values and convictions, which have both been imposed upon me and which I've taken on in order to please and re-discovering my very own; Those of which were mine for many yrs., (and which I've taken many a beaten for and once held firmly unto.) ~Another Chance !
Hope