Actually, I try & exercise my judgment as much as possible, and not being able to trust my own judgement is hands down the thing I hate most about PTSD. So I can hardly begrudge others the same privilege to exercise & follow the dictates of their conscience.
Moreover; the f*cking judgment free morons who refuse to take a stance against child abuse, CSA, & other completely f*cked up & wrong things... Who keep handing children back to abusers... Are on my permanent shit list. As are their spineless cousins who will outright lie to your face, rather than be honest and forthright about their desires, beliefs, and intent; all to preserve pudding like "no judgment here!" ethos at best completely and totally waste my time, and at worst are complicit in all the evils done in the world by refusing to stand up and be counted.
On a person level, I don't want people not to judge me. I may want their opinion to be favorable, but regardless of what their opinion is? To own it, stand behind it, hell... To even be aware of it. Rather than plodding along in dull minded stupor, never agreeing nor disagreeing with anything.
