What Made You Angry Today?

[ms spock]

Okay Nicolette,

I won't say anything more.

I never threatened to get Solara banned. She has misunderstood my posts.

 

[Promicarus]

Re the above dispute--wow. PTSD really screws up our ability to interpret things accurately, doesn't it? I read both your "veins of response", saw how you both had valid points...and thought it was resolved when you mutually reconciled due to a misunderstanding re notification settings. A minor technical issue, it would seem. Apparently resolved. Yet we continue to be moved by our feelings, regardless. Me, too...don't get me wrong. I'm entirely a guilty party, where that's concerned. Just making an observation.

Well, the title of the thread is "what made you angry, today"...ironic, huh? Didn't know the actual thread would be a reason to add to the thread...

 

[Promicarus]

What made me angry today, by the way...was having a party in authority on a sister site, responsible for underhandedly manipulating my previous posts,...and then covering her tracks...recently contact me with a condescending post, as though nothing had happened. Let me answer the (apparently rhetorical) question...."I'm trippin', now".

 

[ms spock]

How slow I am sometimes.

 

[Britt.f7]

That the last few days of this cold I have been breaking out in sweats. Of course, if I start to disrobe, I freeze. Can't win.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

I'm angry at myself for thinking I could trust someone and in the end I couldn't. I feel a bit....stupid. Like yaaay more evidence that people can't really be trusted so why should I even try anymore? I just want to go live under a rock. By myself.

 

[Promicarus]

Been there, done that. 42 years of it, in fact, pretty much. Sometimes things get harder. That doesn't give us an excuse to stop trying...though we have every justification for feeling that way. Wish I had some uplifting words of wisdom that would turn your perspective around. I don't. Sometimes people suck. It became a lot easier for me, though, when I stopped taking that personally, and just realized it's standard to living life--like storms, mosquitos, and muggers. Some people just suck, and betray us. Happens to everyone, sooner or later. But I know the feeling. Easier said, than done, at the time it happens. Don't give up.

 

[ms spock]

I am angry at child abuse that switches genes on and off which make our lives so difficult.

 

[Britt.f7]

That I feel somewhat down in the dumps. Not liking it one iota.

 

[ms spock]

I am angry at my poor communication skills.

 

[ill]

@Solara - I hope you know that you trusting someone and them letting you down is their failure and stupidity and not yours.

 

[Meghan87]

@Solara, ill is 100% right...its hard to get that to stick in our heads sometimes, especially when someone does or says something hurtful to you it is completely on them it just shows their insecurities and it is not your fault that they chose to be a terrible person!

There are a ton of wonderful people out there, took me a long journey to find true friends and a true love but my life is full of love and respect now.. don't give up hope!Just keep being your wonderful caring self and you will find each other eventually...when you do let me tell you the things that seem so terrible and hurtful now won't seem that way at all later on. Never give up being a good person because of someone else you are only letting them win that way!

I have learned to shake my head and tell them I feel bad for them and move forward to my awesome life without them in it. We all make mistakes and I would never judge some one for theirs but I know what I want in my life and what I don't so I make it easier by getting rid of what I don't and cherishing what I do. I too struggle with the same feelings you have at times too but just gotta shake those silly thoughts off and call someone you know loves you :)