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What You Do When There Is So Much To Do?

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janej32

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I have so much work to do for school yet this past week has been horrible and I feel unmotivated to do anything. I am getting so close to the end of the term and I know I have to pull through but I just can't seem to get myself going. I wish I could just tell my professors what is going on with me in the hopes that they would grant me an extension but I feel too embarrassed. :(

Anyone going through anything similar? And how do you deal with getting things done when your head is just not in the place to do it?
 
I am going through the same thing right now. I am starting to get tired and unmotivated to do anything. :( I wish I had some advice- I don't but I am listening.
 
I've been there. This is common end of term fatigue. It happens to the best of people. If you don't already take a B_complex vitamin, now is a great time to start. It has a positive effect on focus and motivation. Then, take on the smaller, easier tasks first. Get as much of the easy things done, while thinking about the larger ones ... yourmind can have a way of working out problems while you are doing something else that is productive. Getting the smaller things done should boost your mood andgive you that energy needed for the harder things.

Stick to it, make small goals and use them like ladder rungs to get to the larger goal of finishing the term. You know that old saying "a journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step." Keeping your feet moving when you are just out of steam seems impossible. So, your first goal is to get that steam going again -- the B-vitamin may seem too easy to actually work, but give it a try.

I made the mistake of telling a professor (also my advisor) about having ptsd and I regretted it. I'm not saying you shouldn't, but keep in mind what kind of people they are in and out of class. They are not always professionals.

Other things I've tried that have helped me in college:
* Stay Alert Gum (don't chew it more than 1 a day, and for no more than 5 minutes ... so chew when needed because it acts very quickly and for a few hours).

* Took a brisk walk when I was feeling that 'brain fog' feeling during a study session.

* Sometimes my blood sugar would drop, and peanut butter was a very good fix. It worked within about 10-15 minutes.

* I used a very detailed check lists every day, to keep up with everything I needed to do. I'd have to make it the day before. I'd make an outline, then work on the details throughout the day to make sure I wasn't forgetting anything. It was my life line. As long as I was following the list I didnt have to waste energy worrying if I've forgotten something -- just stick to the list and the tasks on it. It did save me energy in the long run.

* I also saved energy by cutting out all unneccessary socializing -- especially at the end of the semester. If you are more than about 70% introverted, then you will feel fatigued if you have been talking to people all day, along with all the other stuff you have to do. That will decrease your energy resources. Limit, if you can, the unimportant chit-chat till after the term is over.

I wish you the very best of luck.
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Thank you so much for your tips. As much I would like to tell my professors I know I won't, I just don't see it going well. I am feeling so lethargic lately, possibly from an increased dosage of medication. LOL
It is just so frustrating because everything i need to get done is literally laying out in front of me i just can't mentally prepare myself to do it!
 
I'll be absolutely no help to you on this. But just wanted to say, I'm going through the same thing at the moment.

All the best with it.
 
i'm registered with my disability office, so I get note takers if I want, extra tutors, study time, extra time for exams, and etc.
 
I used to remind myself that all I could was all I could do. I know that sounds kinda circular, but it really helped. Even the best marathon runners have to put one foot in front of the other, and it's kind of the same thing with school. When I looked at the huge stack of things to do it felt overwhelming, but when I just focused on doing each small task to the best of my ability things got done much more quickly than I imagined. I am wishing you the best.
 
I look at the mountain of work that I really have to get done and I shut down, completely. I can't even pick one single thing to get started on, much to the chagrin of my husband.
 
I know how you feel. I have two subjects that I really love at uni, and yet I have just fizzled out just before my two major assignments are due.

I found that joining a study help group gives me some direction when I can get enough energy to drag myself to uni.

My partner is at his wits end, he doesn't know what to do anymore....I find it strange that often the people that try to support me need my support because they are frustrated they can't help me, and I need to educate them daily on what is going on with me.

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I've been the exact same way the last week. I find that finding a friend to study with helps me a lot. Of course it has to be the type of person who will actually study with you and not just use the meeting to talk and catch up. If I make plans to meet with someone specifically for the purpose of studying, I find it's much easier to get started and stay focused. Tomorrow I'm meeting up with a friend to go for a swim, then grab breakfast, then have a marathon study/thesis writing day. I'm quite excited to get out of my week-long lethargic lazy stupor :)
 
That's great! I've been having heaps of trouble trying to get back into studying.....my PTSD was triggered by an assault when I was nursing, and my sister has been in hospital for a week following being hit by a car. I spent 4 days around the clock caring for her, but I could already feel the anti-social, snarly, short fused self coming back after 2 days....

For me, its really hard keeping appointments, even if I like the person, I get filled with a sense of dread....I feel really bout about it too....its so hard to explain.
 
Bubzilla, I'm sorry to hear about your sister, I hope she's recovering and getting well. I definitely understand having a hard time keeping appointments. I've had days where I've called to cancel social engagements because like you said, I was just filled with a sense of dread. It is hard to explain exactly why, at times for me it's almost paralyzing; just the thought of having to go out and socializes leaves me exhausted before I even start to get ready. It's worse when it's a work or important university meeting. Sometimes I've been able to force myself to go, but others I've either called saying I had a migraine.
 
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