Sideways
Moderator
When someone has treated you really badly, been really disrespectful about you, or undermined you to others, or maybe, like, sabotaged your recovery and your alliance with your treatment team...stuff like that...
How do you decide when to (a) be motivated by your anger and try confronting/communicating with that person your hurt, or disappointment; or (b) suck it up and accept that some people are just gonna treat you like shit, and let it go?
Maybe there’s a middle-way - but I can’t see one.
So, how do you know when someone has gone too far, and hurt you too much, that you need to do something about it.
I’d like to salvage the relationship. Possibly that means accepting they’re always gonna treat me like rubbish and undermine me to others? Or is there a boundary issue here that I’m missing, that I maybe need to assert?
Confused how when to do something about being treated like rubbish by loved ones...
How do you decide when to (a) be motivated by your anger and try confronting/communicating with that person your hurt, or disappointment; or (b) suck it up and accept that some people are just gonna treat you like shit, and let it go?
Maybe there’s a middle-way - but I can’t see one.
So, how do you know when someone has gone too far, and hurt you too much, that you need to do something about it.
I’d like to salvage the relationship. Possibly that means accepting they’re always gonna treat me like rubbish and undermine me to others? Or is there a boundary issue here that I’m missing, that I maybe need to assert?
Confused how when to do something about being treated like rubbish by loved ones...