I've always found sexual harassment from men easier to manage than women and jealousy, or women trying to clone/ copy everything (God only knows why? But it is very creepy). I find most men are harder workers, quick to laugh, easier to negotiate with, and usually great to work with. I have met a rare exception with women, or with men, but most I work with gossip and are cruel, and speak and act manipulatively. I was told when treated and spoken to bizarrely when my sister died that it was because of jealousy. Perception of course. When at the end of my rope throwing up in the bathroom women thought I was vain. They tell me I have a stress free life. They've told me I'm selfish I don't have kids, but I was too busy taking care of others, amongst other things. I hate to be unkind to my own gender and there are a few stellar exceptions. But I relate way more to men and don't take offence when they are not PC. I am also not competitive so there's that too. I have found men will either take advantage of or shelter you when you are kind, but many (not all) women are duplicitous and will tear you to pieces. I was also raised without help and so more independent like a man, including feeling more while showing less, and being more direct about what I think or need but also being responsible for it. I don't like to make fun of vulnerable people either. I often find women's perceptions very skewed and egocentric, and also often nasty. I suppose it depends on what they want? Also cliques. I usually ignore it as I have no axe to grind. My mom told me as a teen whatever you're going to do/ wear/ go etc just do it anyway because not doing it won't change their behaviours.
ETA Look at all the wonderful women (and men) here!! Maybe it isn't gender but priorities/ experiences? Heart being more important than wrappings?
