Seeking_Nirvana
Diamond Member
There are always two reasons when a person does something:
1) A "good" reason.
2) The "real" reason.
Which is this person's motive? No matter which one you pick there is "always" a motive.
If a genuine person who really wants to help asks if they can take care of you they have a reason. They are called "rescuers" and they benefit from being a rescuer too, because it gives them a sense of "self worth" and sometimes a "superiority complex".
So, always ask yourself what is their reason!
My 2 cents and if you want my 10 cents it will cost ya. Just Kidding! *smile*
Tammy
1) A "good" reason.
2) The "real" reason.
Which is this person's motive? No matter which one you pick there is "always" a motive.
If a genuine person who really wants to help asks if they can take care of you they have a reason. They are called "rescuers" and they benefit from being a rescuer too, because it gives them a sense of "self worth" and sometimes a "superiority complex".
So, always ask yourself what is their reason!
My 2 cents and if you want my 10 cents it will cost ya. Just Kidding! *smile*
Tammy
