I Got My Ex-boyfriend Fired Deliberately

[Deleted member 541]

You had every right to be angry. But you had NO RIGHT doing what you did. It was childish, unlawful, and pretty much despicable.
PTSD is NOT an excuse for bad behavior.

Sleep well!

 

[Neverthesame]

Good lord. Why would you do such a thing?

Because he cheated on you?
That's a shitty thing he did, no doubt about it.

So you then went on some social media thing, look up your ex (because that's what happened right? You went looking for him. He didn't pop up on Google after searching for cute cat pictures.) Got yourself all riled up, then decided to exact revenge by attempting (and very possibly succeeding) to permanently damage this man's reputation and livelihood.

And this all took place a full 4 months after the relationship ended? This wasn't a week later, but months. You went looking for him on a social media thing, 4 months after the fact.

You know, in the country I was born in. We don't have free speech laws like you do in the US.

racist vents about my ex's boss and co-workers

This. Besides being all of the bad things people above have already said. This, would have easily gotten him arrested and charged with a crime.

Then you come here bragging about how you screwed this guy over, because you choose to vent your anxiety as rage?

As if that would somehow make it ok. I'm sorry you had to live through a relationship that subjected you to domestic violence, but infidelity, is not domestic violence. What you have done here is totally unacceptable.

I hope one day you get to place of mental health, that let's you understand this.

 

[EveHarrington]

Can I ask how this prompted you to join the forum and post about it? (Seeing as how this is your first and so far only post?) I'm just curious------do you believe this behavior is related to PTSD? Yes, PTSD can cause anger issues but this behavior was deliberate/intentional.

 

[Heather]

I had a boyfriend years ago that cheated on me and lied to me constantly....when I found out I was enraged/outrage. I can understand why you feel the way you do. Do I think you should have done that? Probably not a good idea....especially if it comes back to bite you.

Then the question becomes....was it worth it?

 

[ms spock]

What about owning up to what you did so it doesn't ruin his life? That was would be a prudent thing to do.

 

[Pencil]

The title of your thread is 'I got my ex-boyfriend fired deliberately', and not 'I MAY have ..' You take it as a given that he was fired. I doubt it.

The main thing you should really WORRY about right now is getting caught. What you did contains more than one criminal offense. Seeing that most people who have by now become involved (and there are many) believe that 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned', the first suspect that will come to mind will be you. You could be arrested for what you did. Try telling the cops 'PTSD made me do it.'

 

[Lucycat]

The title of your thread

I think it was a deliberately provocative title. It is telling that the OP has not been back with further comments. I suspect she would be very pleased that she has provoked anger and upset, knowing that this is a forum for people with or supporting PTSD and she seeks to blame her behaviour on something everyone of us has to deal with.

 

[Anarchy]

That was my thought too; troll.

Trolls tend to score high on the psychopathy check list.

Even if the post is 100% genuine, the actions in it are pretty psychopathic - grandiose self, no empathy, vindictive rage, sadistic, triangulating to manipulate other people's relationships, and then bragging about it in detail to try to show off.

 

[ladee]

After she didn't come back, that's what I thought, 'troll', but we definitely stood up for it not being the right thing to do under any circumstances... Glad to know we all know right from wrong and do not have a problem saying so....and underlining our own beliefs that PTSD in not an excuse to hurt others... we're a damned find bunch of people here I might add !!

 

[Alistair]

Felt that the community here would embrace her and validate her behaviour.

Nice brain.

 

[Pencil]

I agree with the opinion that she or he is a troll. If so, it frees me to say what I really thought: 'Now that was a really stupid thing to do.' If it really happened, of course.

 

[The Albatross]

If it really did happen, I expect by dropping it onto a forum, she's "told" somebody and that niggling conscience has likely eased.

Last activity was at around 11 am yesterday so she likely viewed through post #7.