I want to move out and live on my own, so I'm not sharing my home with someone who hurts me. I want to learn how to do a pretty damn good job of looking after myself, spotting the kinds of people who are out to hurt me and being able to stand up for myself fairly well.
I want to work on my healing, learning better coping techniques, getting more in touch with myself and what's going on for me - finding out who I am on my own, finding out what I like and doing more of that, challenging myself gently too. I want to learn not to avoid so damn much, I want to take responsibility for myself. I want to learn about how I can work on my being dysfunctional and having come from a dysfunctional family and work on parenting myself and clicking well with healthy others rather than clicking only with unhealthy others.
I want to work on my social anxiety and be with others more and eventually have some good mutual friendships. I recognise it will be a challenge for me but it's totally worth it.
I want to relax and have fun with others, be more present, less tense & fearful. I want to do some creative hobbies, join a Samba band, dance, exercise, visit different parts of the country, cook, take photographs, paint, sew clothes, keep a coriander plant alive for longer than a week!
I want to work towards volunteering somewhere, figuring out what I might be able and enjoy doing for job/career, maybe take a course that helps with that too.
I want to be someone who gives back in the community.
I want to be reasonably healthy, mentally and physically, and live a good enough life.
