My Friend Sent A Good-bye Note

[Justmehere]

I don't. Her kids are with her sister, but I don't know how to reach her.... :( Good idea though.

 

[Justmehere]

I can't save her. I know this. But I wish I could. I hope they find her soon. This is hard. Thanks for the good support everyone. I'm surprised I didn't go numb - you all have helped me stay present and thinking.

 

[Sammyiam]

Do you know her name can you try google. Facebook etc

 

[Deleted member 20280]

JMH, that is what this place is all about, Facing adversity in strength of numbers hun. Always here for you

 

[NarcSis]

I used to get sent to "well being checks" all the time as a medic, most with good outcomes, meaning I or the police, would take a patient to the hospital for evaluation and follow-up. Its definitely not an inconvenience and definitely the right move on your part.

I hope it all works out. Huge Hugs for you because I know what it's like waiting to hear news.

 

[Justmehere]

I just got a call back from the new phone number she gave me just over a month ago. John called me. Said it is a new number for him. And that he doesn't know my friend.

Her boss called me back and said she doesn't work there anymore as of two weeks ago. I didn't ask any more questions.

Police checked her home, she isn't there. No idea where she could be.

I feel so helpless.

 

[Ellabella44]

hoping she is found soon, sending hugs and good wishes.

 

[Deleted member 20280]

Sending warm :hug:s from me to both of you

 

[Neverthesame]

You are doing all you can. I hope they find her.

Sending good vibes to you and your friend.

 

[StarChild]

I have lost too many people I love to suicide. I can not lose her. No. No. No.

In her note, she says "I am sorry if it hurts." I have been suicidal, I get it. But NO apology makes up for the pain of losing someone like this.

No idea where she could be.

I feel so helpless.

Dearest @Justmehere, my heart goes out to you. I've lit two candles: For you and your friend. - As a human, who lost quite a few friends to suicide, I can't help but asking myself right now: Why, oh why is she doing this to you? Why does she first send you a goodbye note and then disappear? Why is she sending you through hell right now? I'm not saying, that she's selfish. But it must be clear for her, even in that state of mind, that she puts you through hell!

My heart really deeply hurts for you. And maybe you'll hate me for what I'm saying now. But I'm also quite angry at your friend. - I feel, this way of acting is gruesome, cruel and loveless. It's not a way to treat ones friend! It's simply cruel!

My heart is with you, and I so hope they find her in time! But please know, if this will end bad, it is neither your fault, nor your responsibility. Even now she has a responsibility towards others, and for how she acts and treats her friend(s).

I'm thinking of you dear @Justmehere. And of your desperate friend as well. Of course! You're not alone. We're here, right by your side.

 

[StellaBlue]

You are in my thoughts.

 

[Suzetig]

I've not been around much today but you and your friend have been on my mind.