Are Relationships All About Being A Partner Pleaser ??

[Truthful_Whispers]

I had a traumatic breakup several years ago and I remember several people telling me to "just get ov...

Just getting over it is often easier said than done. Relationships are like an addiction to another person in the mind. And, it takes time to 'wean' yourself off of them and their presence. It is even more difficult for someone with a mental affliction, because suitable and understanding companions are somewhat of a rarity. It will take some time, but the pain will subside. I have been through it too, many times. Hang in there.

 

[VoiceOfReason]

A relationship should be about mutually being there for one another.

I have to completely agree with this concept. I have found the the most satisfactory relationship I have been in (and still am) is the kind where I fill as many of my partners needs as I can while my partner fills as many of mine in return. But this is not an exchange, nor a payment, nor an equalization balance. I don't give so that I can get. Rather the opposite, I get so much that I can give so much back.

I hope that you all find that kind of reciprocal blessing. You all deserve it.

And don't settle for anything less...ever.

Peace and Love,
VoR