I was born intersexed, both male and female. Doctors saw fit to sugically remove my masculinity and support my femininity. I was never able to carry a fetus past the first trimester of pregnancy, had seven miscarriages.
I read that the life history of a person such as me is not easy, and I agree. We tend not to wholely fit into any exact lifestyle or group. I was married for 23 years, my husband passed away, so I am alone now. I tend to think that is for the best, though I am sometimes lonely.
I have never met in person anyone born with my condition, though I have heard of others of course. I did try to join a Forum for folks like me, there are many I hear, but I could not relate with them either! LOL... I've always been kind of a loner, though I do tend to find one or two close friends here or there, and visit personally with them sometimes.
I am not really the homemaker kind of person, cooking and cleaning are foreign to me. Thus I make a lousy wife! My hubby, God rest his soul, was the best chef. We had five dogs, so there was no use in cleaning house very much, it didn't make a lot of difference!
I did not find out about this until rather recently. I am 58 and if I recall, it came to light when I was 57. I was in a state of shock and ended up in a mental institution, as you well might imagine. My parents took this secret to their graves, so my family did not believe me! They wanted proof. I was insulted, to say the least. So I just don't talk about it anymore. Not with them anyway!