PTSD is an anxiety disorder that encompasses all the other ones, if you have some significant symptoms of PTSD, they could easily fall within the other ones. Maybe since it was 10 years of stuff, throw a "chronic" on there, but the fact remains, there is still a major difference between trying to stay alive and putting up with some serious BS.
My point, and I think the point of many of those who argue for C-PTSD, is that there are other kinds of trauma besides being threatened with physical harm or death, which are severe enough to cause the same symptoms as PTSD
3 things about this, A) the only place I've ever seen C-PTSD mentioned is here (after going through several treatment programs and therapists) so my sample size is small, but just about every person that has mentioned it has been talking about childhood abuse(as the start, and reason for putting the big ole C)
and B) It doesn't matter if they are "as severe" because you could have someone who has been getting tortured every day growing up, who has no anxiety problems, until they see Barney. Then they can't even turn the tv on anymore because of Barney, because he causes uncontrollable fear (first time ever seeing him). Or you could have someone who was spoiled their entire life, who sees someone get hit by a car on the street, and becomes too afraid to enter any vehicle without xanax or sedation for 10 years. This brings in the categorizing of the unique.
C) Smarter people generally get traumatized worse, if you take the idea of PTSD being a traumatic event "burning" itself into your mind(laymen's terms) the smarter person is etching it deeper, my point with is, 10 years of stress, you probably have an IQ greater than that of a cucumber, chances are, you ingrained it pretty deep. This would help explain some of the severity, though again, each situation and each individual is unique.
PTSD isn't about the severity of the anxiety. I have PTSD, and have tried so many times to get things like xanax or one of those calm-down pills, but because I don't exhibit enough anxiety, they call it drug-seeking lol. PTSD is about if you exhibit at least 14 of the 17 symptoms developing from a Traumatic event. It is a label for the after-effects of a traumatic event. It's not a "super anxiety" label.
You can have Generalized Anxiety Disorder and be x65 more anxious than someone with PTSD.
Standardized rating scales such as GAD-7 can be used to assess severity of generalized anxiety disorder symptoms.[5] It is the most common cause of disability in the workplace in the United States.[6]
~wikiapedia
Ten years of living under extreme stress, by the DSM-IV's definition, therefore could not possibly cause my symptoms.
It could EASILY cause your symptoms. Just because you don't match up for PTSD doesn't mean it's not a rough time...
So "what else is there" is trauma involving threats/fear of things other than physical harm
Have someone hold your life in their hands(and know very vividly they have all the control, keep your eyes open too) while they are causing you some physical duress, and then compare that feeling to being yelled at a lot. I'm not saying the other stuff isn't stressful, I'm saying there's a rather intense difference between being in possible last-moments danger, and everything else.
My therapist tried to diagnose me. I had the symptoms of PTSD. But, answering honestly, I couldn't say that my parents ever threatened me with physical harm or death.
She gave me some psychological personality tests, on which I tested normal, as she would expect someone with PTSD to do. She seemed puzzled. When I mentioned I'd been in a serious car accident as a child, she got excited and thought maybe that was the answer. But I had no nightmares connected to that, no fear of driving or cars or any situations related to it.
Few things, a) your therapist, at MOST, should only give you her OPINION of your diagnosis. Therapists are not qualified to give diagnoses
b) this gives off an enormous glow of "looking for cookie-cutter dx + treatment style cookies plz" (at least from the therapist)
c) the psychological personality tests... um, I'm willing to bet a vast majority of people w/ PTSD would NOT test "normal," especially people who grew up with it(unless you are like me and try to give the sanest answers you know). Not to mention the many other things that can arise out of traumatic situations (I was dx with PTSD, ODD, ADD, Dysthemic, bipolar, BPTraits (borderline for kids), and maybe one or two more.)
d) given the nature of mental health, most of the treatments are guidelines... you can have any anxiety related to a past event(since debating trauma vs. non-trauma, non-trauma for this event) and do EMDR and talk therapy and electroshock and meds and physical therapy, all of which have worked for people's PTSD (keep in mind, PTSD doesn't really ever go completely away, idk maybe if you only have a few events), and see results.
e) every case of PTSD is unique
Note: I wasn't wanting a diagnosis for work/benefit/monetary reasons, just for treatment to help decrease my symptoms.
You could check the web and find things to help, or could ask her for help getting past your anxiety(I assume that's the issue) and then just delve into why things bother you, and set about changing the rigid thought patterns
(that lead you to anxiety, sorta like a habit that someone else burned into you, to stop a habit you have to change the thinking during the situation[something about neuron paths and use it more it builds stronger paths this way etc etc] and train yourself not to do it automatically). The diagnosis is a non-essential if you know the problem...
Finally she said she'd treat me "as if" I had PTSD, even though I didn't, because my symptoms fit so well even though I didn't meet the DSM-IV criteria. It was so silly I quit going. Oddly enough, when I mentioned C-PTSD, she'd never heard of it even as a proposed diagnosis, although it would have solved her puzzle perfectly.
1) Many, MANY symptoms are shared across diagnoses, check the other ones
2) What is C-PTSD? Because even on this site, I don't think people can agree yet lol, it's been pretty repetitively described as trauma being started in childhood
3) Don't let yourself get mixed up with severities and etc etc. You have a self-identified problem, no? See the problem, dissect the problem, fix the problem, rebuild. Most of the treatments (at least for anxiety) are just ways to do it easier.