I have chosen my mood as angry where there should be one for white hot furious. Yesterday Margaret had a bad day, her mother had a fall (she is ok), my wound leaked (it was just old blood finding a way out), someone U turned without indicating and smashed the front of her car (their fault), and then there is the arguing between me and my boy that has been happening since his suspension.
Last night I was explaining to Christian and her daughter that Margaret had, had a bad day and that I wanted them to do dishes. Anyway, she ended up saying the when we 'f*cked Off' she would do them. So naturally I burred up, I tried not too, but there has been a heap on my plate. I told her she had no right speaking to my son like that and that she should treat people with respect.
This morning I received a message from her via Facebook telling me to get control of my son and that he was not doing the right things. How dare she. She is 17, does not even work a 30 hour week yet, does not do stuff all about the house and is lecturing me on how to raise my son. Well I was furious.
I am feeling like packing up and taking Christian and leaving. I am not going to get between a mother and her daughter and Margaret does not need the stress. Its not fair on her. In the past Margaret has just turned a blind eye. Maybe they are better off that way. At least they were existing.
Now that I am in the house, I am noticing all the shit that is wrong. The 17 year old verbally abuses her mother, her sister and does not even acknowledge her brother from another relationship. And now she is starting on Chris my boy.
What am I to do.
Any advice. I don't want to get in the road of her family, yet I love Margaret.
