What are we really struggling with?
Control.
1: Being manipulated? What can you do in this situation right now?
2: Manipulating others and not understanding why that's wrong? Explain why you understand that you're doing this to you circle. Offer an idea of what would be an appriopriate change. Share a story.
3: Working on calming and caring for self- and then you find friends who are really shitty and in all of these categories - uh-yes. Yes. this is me tonight. If you've been working on caring for yourself and that is making you see relationships differently... please share.
4: Having issues out of our control? If your situation is really making your "brain" change and you are young and have no one to talk to... Write it out. Document it so you don't lose yourself. You are not likely to call the authorities if you are young and not sure. The things that bring strife into the home and into the heart - at the level caring-rational people see abuse - it's not really on you. Not your fault and it will most certainly make you want to go with it, or decide other to choose to see life in a skewed way to get through it. As a child- but also reporting it makes other problems.
Keep a journal and write here.
4: Advise for suffering people. What works. Strength to report it without self-harm. I was told 7 years later that I missed the statute of limitations to report this issue. Advise to to avoid issues. Real stuff - for real victims - please. Please do not convulute stories. People here need help.
5: This one is personal. But BE POSITIVE PLEASE. Please do not give anecdotal answers. What happens to young men or girls who are stuck in family abuse?
Clearly, there is a family feeling, but it's one that is hurting them. Where to turn... really?
That goes on for years for some people who cannot speak-or talk about current abuse. MANY OF THE OLDER PEOPLE HERE KNOW THIS. We also know it was just not like it happened over night, which makes it weird and hard to discern from OK.
Asking for help and not finding it.
Branching-out to get back-into life... but not finding hope in new adventures and friends.
When to help?
When to pull back?
Self preservation?
Sharing what I've learned? Is it worth it! NO!!!
This website is like dynamite-hurtful for a lot of us here. WE DON'T NEED MORE BADNESS. WE NEED CARE AND FORWARD THINKING. We are here because we either care and got hurt, or have empathy-lack and that's a thing that others can expound upon... I don't have that side.
I know that we are not the first society in the human existence to be self-centered.
PEOPLE!!!
WE HAVE ENOUGH OF STRUGGLES AND STRANGE. AREN'T WE ALL HURTING BY BADNESS?
I WANT TO SEE STORIES AND LOGICAL HELP FOR PEOPLE STRUGGLING.
GOODNESS.
Control.
1: Being manipulated? What can you do in this situation right now?
2: Manipulating others and not understanding why that's wrong? Explain why you understand that you're doing this to you circle. Offer an idea of what would be an appriopriate change. Share a story.
3: Working on calming and caring for self- and then you find friends who are really shitty and in all of these categories - uh-yes. Yes. this is me tonight. If you've been working on caring for yourself and that is making you see relationships differently... please share.
4: Having issues out of our control? If your situation is really making your "brain" change and you are young and have no one to talk to... Write it out. Document it so you don't lose yourself. You are not likely to call the authorities if you are young and not sure. The things that bring strife into the home and into the heart - at the level caring-rational people see abuse - it's not really on you. Not your fault and it will most certainly make you want to go with it, or decide other to choose to see life in a skewed way to get through it. As a child- but also reporting it makes other problems.
Keep a journal and write here.
4: Advise for suffering people. What works. Strength to report it without self-harm. I was told 7 years later that I missed the statute of limitations to report this issue. Advise to to avoid issues. Real stuff - for real victims - please. Please do not convulute stories. People here need help.
5: This one is personal. But BE POSITIVE PLEASE. Please do not give anecdotal answers. What happens to young men or girls who are stuck in family abuse?
Clearly, there is a family feeling, but it's one that is hurting them. Where to turn... really?
That goes on for years for some people who cannot speak-or talk about current abuse. MANY OF THE OLDER PEOPLE HERE KNOW THIS. We also know it was just not like it happened over night, which makes it weird and hard to discern from OK.
Asking for help and not finding it.
Branching-out to get back-into life... but not finding hope in new adventures and friends.
When to help?
When to pull back?
Self preservation?
Sharing what I've learned? Is it worth it! NO!!!
This website is like dynamite-hurtful for a lot of us here. WE DON'T NEED MORE BADNESS. WE NEED CARE AND FORWARD THINKING. We are here because we either care and got hurt, or have empathy-lack and that's a thing that others can expound upon... I don't have that side.
I know that we are not the first society in the human existence to be self-centered.
PEOPLE!!!
WE HAVE ENOUGH OF STRUGGLES AND STRANGE. AREN'T WE ALL HURTING BY BADNESS?
I WANT TO SEE STORIES AND LOGICAL HELP FOR PEOPLE STRUGGLING.
GOODNESS.