General Expressing Love For Our Sufferers

[ISupportHer]

To my wife,

I am so worried. I have tried to talk with you but see that you just cannot talk about it right now. I love you no matter what happens on Weds. I really have to resist the temptation to text you or call you through the day to let you know I am thinking of you. I know that you hear my words that I am available to you if you can talk. I love you.

 

[leanonme]

Although there are times when I could just scream...I love my husband so much. Not even the PTSD, mood swings, flashbacks, or night terrors could ever make me change my mind about that. He's my husband, and I promised him for better or worse, through sickness and health....that I will be there for him.

I love him! I love him! I love him! (ugh! That felt good to get out!)

 

[Shoka]

To my "unsung" hero

What hell we have been through in the last 36 hours! I love you and hope that you will enjoy this weekend's weather, which I know you have been waiting for all summer.

I really need to you to recognize that I am fragile at the moment, and am doing the best I can to take care of myself and then take care of you too. I'm in a weakened place at the moment though and need a breather. I wish you could help me more, but know that I have to turn away from "us" a little and take care of me 100%. This doesn't mean I don't love you or want to be with you. It's what I must do to survive the hell of the last few days.

 

[Frankie]

To the man I loved more than anyone else.....and deep down, in a special hidden pocket of my heart, always will :)

You were everything I ever wanted and needed in a partner. You made me see things differently and we were always there for each other. You made me feel special, beautiful, loved and cherished.

You having PTSD made me a better person, made me more giving, more compassionate, more patient, less demanding...and for that, I thank-you :)

Your PTSD is part of you and I loved YOU.....I embraced the good times and the bad times, cause that is what made you....be you !

I was always proud and touched by all the efforts you made, whether they were in dealing with your ptsd, or in how you were in our relationship.

It has been one year since you left...your ptsd got the better of you....you did lots of things this past year that were not done from the man I once knew...but from a different and confused man. I wish what happened didn't have to happen and that you didn't have to leave...but you did....

My wish for you is to be whole again....or as whole as you can be....to find happiness and hold on to it....

Thank-you for sharing your life with me for 2 wonderful years ! I will never regret knowing and loving you.

People come in our lives for a moment, a day, or forever.....all for a reason...your reason was to show me what true love and what a real relationship was all about...and that I should not expect anything less ......another reason was to show me that I can handle anything that comes my way, I am much stronger, I am able to look at life and appreciate all it has to offer !

Thank-you.

Frankie

 

[Nicolette]

I am grateful that I can express my love directly to my sufferer and don't have to use this place. :thumbs-up

 

[Sputnik Sweetheart]

A journal of love letters

I keep a journal with "letters" to my husband. Every time I want to send a text, call, or tell him something I write it down instead. Sometimes, I feel silly like I'm engaging in a fantasy relationship, but I don't want to cut myself off from these emotions either. Sometimes, when he is feeling better I can use the journal to go back to a particular thought and share it.

 

[pegasus]

I want to you to know I love you. Sometimes I see stuff that it's not fair of us to see. It's normal for someone with a healthy mind to feel adverse stress from this stuff. I want to hold you and tell you how you are the best thing that happened to me. You have shown me what love is and how good a person you are. That when the day is over and I have closed the evil out, it is you I think of.

 

[Pam]

Oh my. This so describes me, this toxic lover. My C would so say that I am saccharin sweet and sometimes I give him a toothache. So he has asked me to put a little edge into my style. So I have been working on that.

So here ya go C. Me with edge.

I lust after you C. You make my heart pound right through my chest. There is no better aroma than your fresh baked bread and sweet butter scent. But when you come home all covered in welding debris and axle grease I just want to melt into your arms.

:thumbs-up

 

[Berger90]

This is going to feel nice.

Tootz, (yes, I call my girlfriend tootz =D)

You are a masterpiece in my eyes, strong, quirky, smart, confident, artistic, beautiful, and most of all an inspiration. Ever since we started dating, I knew something was special about you. I've always wanted to tell you this, but I'm completely head over heels in love with you. That's really all I can say, it feels so good to say it. I just hope you know that no matter what I am here for you unconditionally. You helped me when I confronted issues I've never confronted before. You're still here for me. Thank you, you have no clue how much you mean to me.

 

[Tessa]

My beautiful daughter..my wish for you..

I wish for you happiness born from courage and achievment
I wish for you strength of spirit to climb to mountain heights
I wish for you vision to see beyond the treetops
I wish for you love , fragile in it's beauty , tendered by wisdom and care
I wish for you tears to cleanse the soul and show compassion
I wish for you a mind to challenge and sort weeds from worthy plants
I wish for you a soul to see God
My daughter...
I wish for you a tapestry of life sown in gentle perserverance to reveal the unique beauty of you...

Love Mum x

 

[jenaew]

Well since I can not talk to him at the moment...

David,
Though I never tell you this, I do love you. I am pretty sure its obvious in anyone's eyes, though. You are a great man even though you don't see yourself that way. You make other people feel good and happy (granted when you are good and happy) and you have an uncanny ability to want to help people out. That's how I know you are worth it when others tell me I'm crazy for being with you. Because I can see the good in you when even you can't.

And I'm so sorry that I act like a baby sometimes when I don't get my way :/ If I were telling you this you'd know what I mean...I'm sorry. I try to be strong and resilient for you, but I'm only human too.

I hope you talk to me soon. Whether or not you do I'm still here. Like I told you, you can never make me hate you. So just take the time you need.

 

[justme]

Thinking of all the things I wanted to say to you has made me quite emotional. All I can say right now is this...


Baby--I love you with all my heart. I am still here, and have not left you. Although we don't really see each other very much anymore I have always been true to you. I am always here if you need me for anything. I hope you can one day look inside yourself and find the strength to tackle this head on. It will be a long and probably painful journey of recovery for you but will be totally worth it in the end. You can do it, I know you can. You deserve it. I love you Baby.