I don't think she was trying to make me jealous, she was crying a lot during our call afraid that I was going to leave her.I personally smell BS. I don’t know her or you, but it seems like games.
If her ex is a horrible, controlling, abusive person, why is she going over to his house to do laundry? She doesn’t have any change for a laundromat? Why doesn’t she move out of the apartment “he can legally access.” Why doesn’t she block his number if he is harassing her?
If he is abusive why is she going to him for any kind of comfort?
If they’re divorced he has no right to do anything to or with her anymore. Divorce is legally binding. He’s not her husband anymore. If they don’t have kids he has no need to contact her. She needs to make her own way like any other adult.
In my opinion she is trying to make you jealous. Sounds like more of the same as she was doing before.
This is the only person she can rely upon in Germany. Meaning, that she says he began changing after their divorce but she does not want absolutely anything with him. She lives broke, that is why she has two part time jobs and is also studying. She is from another European country of a poor economy. She does not want any external economic support either, she let this be very clear.
Ever since that occassion, she commited and it is just evident she is not meeting other guys.