I also feel sorry for Zimmerman's cousin, but I'm glad she finally feels safe from him now.
This in no way has any impact on Zimmerman's guilt or innocence regarding his altercation with Martin. However, it does support my belief that Zimmerman is a very troubled individual -- a wannabe cop, looking for attention, and a control freak that feels he has to dominate others. My ex-wife's primary perp had the exact same profile and behavior.
He did have every right to be carrying a gun, concealed, because he had a legal permit for it. One might question laws that allow a person, without employment related to law enforcement or security, to have this right, or allow neighborhood watch participants to be carrying a gun while "on duty", without training in law enforcement techniques related to confrontations -- but that's for the Floridians to figure-out. :)
He was two years old when two ten year old little monsters tortured, raped, and mutilated him.
I have long been an angry person. If the perpetrators in this case had been adults, my first reaction would have been wanting to see them drawn and quartered.
However, recovery has changed my perspective on this some. If these two 10-year olds were committing such heinous acts, there's little doubt that they were, themselves, highly traumatized, outside of having any congenital neurological disorders. The same applies to adults. One would assume and hope that, as adults, they can make choices about their behavior, but severe-enough trauma can override and corrupt rational and ethical decision-making. Many of these types of perpetrators describe how they were
compelled to act-out.
We certainly can't ignore or excuse the behavior-- we need, and have a right to, protect ourselves and our families from attack.
However, the punishment aspect is something I'm struggling with, right now. Because punishment and hatred is not going to cure them, nor will it do a damned thing for the victims or their loved ones. Someone else made the point here, or in another thread, that it's important to separate one's behaviors from the person, and I'm finding this to be very true.
Ultimately, who's to blame for these kinds of acts? All of us, as a society, because we allow this cycle of child abuse to continue, generation after generation, either through direct abuse, or by turning a blind eye to it and not addressing it. This is not to say that this is an easy problem to solve; the reason little is done about it is probably very much related to how complex and widespread an issue this is. However, until changes do occur with regard to how we raise children, as a society, we shouldn't be surprised at seeing this kind of behavior from time to time.
As for the definition of Murder? There has to be malice a forethought.
Agreed. However, the jury also had the option to go with Manslaughter, which would not require malice aforethought -- in the same way that killing someone by hitting them with a car, accidentally, can be considered Manslaughter. In my mind, it all comes down to who accosted whom first.