orangeweezel
Bronze Member
Thanks guys, I feel a bit better knowing it's not just me!
Can I ask what your therapist does to work around it...
It's definitely a common reaction, because traumatic experiences are stored in the body as well as the more obvious places. Sometimes physical expression of those things can be (or feel) unconsciously safer than emotional expression, which is true for me. A great book on this is: The Body Keeps the Score.
As a therapist, I normalize what's happening, try to keep dual awareness (awareness of the painful feelings/thoughts and also being physically safe in the therapy office) and do grounding exercises. Sometimes changing temperature (drinking ice water) or speaking truth to the client about what's happening can help quite a bit.