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He broke up with me. Not only that but he left me for another woman.
Im in shock to tell you the truth. 2 weeks ago he invited me over, cooked for me the most delicious romantic dinner followed with a very passionate intimate night, where he made it clear to me he wants to date me and Im the one. Blah blah blahhh.....
3 weeks goes by, we meet up for drinks again in his place, I ask him whats his vision for our future, if he has one? He looks at me with his big sad eyes and says NO, I met someone else during the holidays and is considering falling inlove with her. I was in shock. I didnt see this coming, specially after him beeing a big initiator and tryng to get closer with me. Telling me the opposite. It just didnt make sense. I started to cry and asked him, how could he be possibly in love with somebody else already. He said not yet, he still has to get over me, but is talking to the other woman, Who supposedly lives in a diff country. Could it be that he just wanted to break things up bc he was getting more emotionally attached and he needs an ocean between himself and his love usually. But then again he said he would still like to keep me in his life. I mean, a big time player or just push and pull?????.... Hes distanced many times and isolated, but never told me he has to get over me before. So Im sure he met someone else, but why tell me all this loving bullshit if he wasnt serious to begin with. He'd been acting really angry and frustarting lately as well, mad at his family, telling me he doest speak to them right now, even tho hes very close to them. I dont know, non of this makes sense. Could it be anniversary date approaching and hes getting rid of everyone in his life he loves or could it be that Im a complete idiot to trust a man with ptsd/tbi. Im f*cking confused.
Im in shock to tell you the truth. 2 weeks ago he invited me over, cooked for me the most delicious romantic dinner followed with a very passionate intimate night, where he made it clear to me he wants to date me and Im the one. Blah blah blahhh.....
3 weeks goes by, we meet up for drinks again in his place, I ask him whats his vision for our future, if he has one? He looks at me with his big sad eyes and says NO, I met someone else during the holidays and is considering falling inlove with her. I was in shock. I didnt see this coming, specially after him beeing a big initiator and tryng to get closer with me. Telling me the opposite. It just didnt make sense. I started to cry and asked him, how could he be possibly in love with somebody else already. He said not yet, he still has to get over me, but is talking to the other woman, Who supposedly lives in a diff country. Could it be that he just wanted to break things up bc he was getting more emotionally attached and he needs an ocean between himself and his love usually. But then again he said he would still like to keep me in his life. I mean, a big time player or just push and pull?????.... Hes distanced many times and isolated, but never told me he has to get over me before. So Im sure he met someone else, but why tell me all this loving bullshit if he wasnt serious to begin with. He'd been acting really angry and frustarting lately as well, mad at his family, telling me he doest speak to them right now, even tho hes very close to them. I dont know, non of this makes sense. Could it be anniversary date approaching and hes getting rid of everyone in his life he loves or could it be that Im a complete idiot to trust a man with ptsd/tbi. Im f*cking confused.
