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To me his reaction is the beginning of something not good unless you confront his outrageous accusations right now. You can't wait.
It's what a therapist taught me to do with my husband. Any time he spoke to me like your boyfriend had, bordering on abuse, I stopped it, confronted him, and then walked away, giving him time to think about his behavior. He later would apologize. It took years and now he's well-trained. ;) He treats me with respect.
If you don't think you can confront this man whenever he speaks to you like this, move on.
BTW, people can hide anything they wish from anyone. My husband told me about a woman who was dating a man who was an alcoholic. Everyone in town knew it but her. We're not talking about a long distance relationship either. She was blind to it and believing the guy was wonderful. He never drank around her and hid his problem. She was about to marry him until my husband told her about the guy. At first she couldn't believe it and then she started looking at the whole picture and saw the truth.
