Relationship He Got Rid Of My Pictures

[anthony]

I'm wondering why you're still here on the forum as your "sufferer" is long gone.

We don't get to decide when someone stops needing support. They decide that, not another.

 

[nursenurse]

It's all good. Why do I remain on here? Because there is always aftermath when things go awry. Because I have friends on here that are sufferers whom I support. Because I thought I had something to contribute, as well, since I received so much in the first place from being here.

I stick to the supporters' part of the forum for the most part. There was a time when the supporters' section was for supporters. Advice to supporters from supporters who have gone before, or are still in the midst of things. That has changed a lot, but like everyone here, I value all opinions, not just those of like minded souls.

I do not need to defend my words and actions here, as you are free to take them or leave them as you see fit. But I will say it again. The same tune keeps getting played out, therefore the answers seem to be the same. How would I feel if my guy told me he ditched my pictures? From a mental health point of view, how would one view that? In no way do I demean those who are here fighting so hard for their lives. I have been supportive of the sufferers here, including you,@Solara. But to sugar coat as normal what some supporters are writing down here is not doing them any favours. Yes everyone makes mistakes. But some folks need a wakeup call when the mistakes are so many or so far out that the blinders are on way too tight.

I respectfully bow out of this thread now.

 

[Deleted member 1860]

Well I guess some people heal by BASHING every single action of the "enemy" by calling it abuse in order to "save" poor unsuspecting supporters.....


Oh, well I guess I'm in an abusive situation right now because the guy I've been talking to on and off for 9 months now....well, in May we BOTH deleted each other from one another's life! (I'm cracking up at this one b/c he's a pretty damn stable person.) Maybe I should let him know that its off because I don't put up with abuse!


@nursenurse,
You hold people to unrealistic expectations. Why is that? People are supposed to be perfect in your eyes, but they aren't. Do you honestly think that a split second mistake amounts to abuse? You can honestly sit here and tell me that deleting someone's electronic photographs is abusive? I guess I've been abusive to my ex's after I dumped them b/c I threw away everything that they'd ever given me.