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Givrali
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I have no doubt about she was dealing with everything long before I was here. But I need to be helpful when someone seems to need help. And my cousin is screaming needed help by all aspect of her life so I can't just stop looking a way to be here for her.
Her family isn't the supportive model family. His brother beaten her to the point she was afraid to die, his father was barely here for her whole life, her mother is close to her but said to not report her brother because he would suffer consequences for his acts toward her. Also her mother without knowing encouraged her to starve herself and wasn't very reactive about her habit to self harm. My cousin deeply loves her but is aware of her mother being not very helpful for her recovering. They talk each other at phone every day.
My cousin has the same behavior towards her abuser than me. At least I was having before stopping the sexual abuse from him.
He doesn't hurt her anymore. They lived together at some point but my cousin decided to leave to love alone for some reason I didn't get I won't pressure her to tell me. It's not my business and it's a relief for me she won't live with him anymore. They kept contact and she frequently see him and he frequently visit or do things for her. She doesn't seems to suffer to this contact while I can't see a way she could not suffer from it. She is adult and make and decide her own choices it's not to me to decide for her
Her family isn't the supportive model family. His brother beaten her to the point she was afraid to die, his father was barely here for her whole life, her mother is close to her but said to not report her brother because he would suffer consequences for his acts toward her. Also her mother without knowing encouraged her to starve herself and wasn't very reactive about her habit to self harm. My cousin deeply loves her but is aware of her mother being not very helpful for her recovering. They talk each other at phone every day.
My cousin has the same behavior towards her abuser than me. At least I was having before stopping the sexual abuse from him.
He doesn't hurt her anymore. They lived together at some point but my cousin decided to leave to love alone for some reason I didn't get I won't pressure her to tell me. It's not my business and it's a relief for me she won't live with him anymore. They kept contact and she frequently see him and he frequently visit or do things for her. She doesn't seems to suffer to this contact while I can't see a way she could not suffer from it. She is adult and make and decide her own choices it's not to me to decide for her