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Poll How Fast Do You Eat?

How fast do you eat?

  • Quickly

    Votes: 52 67.5%
  • Average speed

    Votes: 6 7.8%
  • Slowly

    Votes: 19 24.7%

  • Total voters
    77
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I was thinking about the times when i cant eat. Most of the time its just simply forgetting to eat and when i try but its a few bites in when ive learned i cant and it is slow since im forcing it. Like someone with the flu or is real sick forcing down food, its slow.

But the majority of the time (every time thats not the above) its insanely fast to the point of people gathering around to watch something weird and some comment to slow down. Its rather embarrasing.
 
I hate to eat. The anxiety of sitting at a table in any situation is anxiety causing. Yes, I have issues with controling food, but now I inhale just to get it over with. Yes, childhood, not enough food, guilt over eating food, Mother actually had a lock on the fridge. Was this normal? I think not.
 
Slowly when I can't eat and quickly on average because I am still deep down terrified any food I have will be taken away from me.

Trying to not eat near people or only eat in crowds where nobody cares, because I am good at unintentional murderous glances while eating. Have a better knack on that after meals, but so not during.
 
It all depends.

It can take me a day or two to eat a granola bar, or hours to eat a taco/bau/sandwich. When I'm struggling with food it isn't impossible to eat, but very difficult to.

I can also inhale up to a few pounds of food in minutes.

I learned to eat fast cooking in restaurants. 15 minute break = eat, bathroom, & 2 cigarettes. (I didn't learn to pee fast until I was in the military). Cigarettes are 4-6 minutes each, so that left 3-5 minutes to eat & pee & get from the kitchen to loo to loading dock and back to the kitchen. Totally doable. I can vanish a 22oz porterhouse in about a minute and a half. Another 30 seconds for the starch & veg.

And I can eat really normally, at vey normal speeds. That changes a bit by culture, but it's pretty easy to adopt local custom.
 
I am a fast eater but I don't think it is to avoid feelings.

know what it is like to go hungry and also my diabetes makes me feel ravenous at times and I will eat rather quickly as a result.
 
I used to shovel it in at breakneck speed for many reasons, including my work schedule/environment and having to grab and growl if I wanted to eat at all, and also from living many years not knowing where my next meal would come from, if it came at all, so once food was available, I felt I had to scarf it down before someone else snatched it away. Not to mention, the greasier, the sweeter, and less healthy it was, the more my body painfully craved to have it shoved into my face as fast as possible because that addictive taste the companies pay highly for had me hooked like a mofo.

However, after a medical scare two years ago to this day that forced me into a drastic lifestyle change regarding what I consume and surround myself with in an attempt to avoid the surgical knife, I've since learned that the digestive and elimination processes begin with how well we chew our food (should be chewing every bite until it's in liquid-form - like 20-30 times per bite - I even chew my juices and water to get the digestive enzymes kicked into gear), and I learned that our stomach doesn't have teeth to finish chewing what we so often and so quickly woof down in big chunks, and that we're only creating more uncomfortable issues as we mindlessly go along, and we're slowing down the processes of healthy digestion and elimination when we do that. I don't remember anyone in school ever teaching those things. Hmmmmm..........just the opposite, in fact. Here kids, eat your meat and potatoes and drink this milk while you do, as it does a body good and stuff. Then have some fruit for dessert. Ummmmm......no thank you, now that I've learned what all that does to my innards.

Being more mindful of what I choose to chew on and how much I chew it has made a huge positive difference in my overall health. Learning about food combining (shouldn't combine meat and starch, shouldn't eat fruit after other food groups, etc.) and not drinking with our meals (only 20 minutes before and/or 20 minutes after and only about a cup's worth with the meal) helped a great deal, too. I took it even further and eliminated meat, dairy, eggs, caffeine, and alcohol. Feeling healthier, lighter, and full of more energy than I ever recall in my 49 years of existence. We've been misled and misfed for a long damn time. I still struggle with the various taste bud addictions and the desire to woof it all down. The food system is designed that way, unfortunately.
 
I eat really fast. If I'm in public or around family I try to slow it down though so I don't seem like a pig. I always wondered why people ate so slowly. I'm not sure what causes it for me but my guess is because when I was young everyone would take everything from me. My brother would break my toys for no reason, if I got something nice for my birthday my brothers would instantly steal it to sell for drugs, if I would get on the family computer my brothers would instantly hound at me to get off, the list goes on. With food once it goes in it's mine no take backs and I don't have to worry about it. I've tried to eat slower but it's so unsatisfying I can't stand it.
 
I wasn't even aware of it until a friend pointed it out. She said to me angrily one day, "Slow down!" while we were eating together. I was surprised, as I had never noticed. I know I was considered a "slow eater" by my family, when I was a child. However, they may have been fast eaters and maybe I was just a bit slower, who knows? I do know now that when I eat with others, I generally finish way before they do.
 
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