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YEAH Nam! Toot your own horn! toot it loud lol! I am happy for you :)
Boo I like the pic, I have to go find it but I had one that looks like that but it says how about a nice big cup of shut the f* up. That one describes me more LOL.
Purdy, I hope you get some rest and feel better. My evening is just starting...
OK, the teen daughter was picked up from school with the others and she has proven yes, she actually does need/want her ass kicked.
I am sitting having a nice conversation with my son about the girl he dumped. Yeah, no more hickey! I already told him he was better than and deserved better than any girl who would degrade herself in such a way. Any way he said I was right. Repeat - my kid said I WAS RIGHT! OK, after that bomb shell he goes on telling me he really needs to get to know the girls better before he dates them... like I said he should. This one would be nice to people in their face and when they would leave he said all she would do is put them down. He told her he did not like that and you should not be fake, don't pretend to be friends with people, it was just wrong. You have something to say to them say it. She did not stop so he dumped her. She said maybe some time later in the year? He told her when you learn to quit being rude, ha ha ha!
Then he started talking about the kids flying gang colors at school... led to conversations about idiots as a whole following more idiots, then to nazis. My son and I have some pretty deep conversations because he can. The idiot in the back seat then piped in... guess she needed to feel involved or the back of my hand, not sure which.
Short conversation, not a conversation really. Went a little like this and my translation.
Her "what is so wrong with nazis?" translation - Mom, I know our family got out in time from russian poland so I am blessed to be here alive, so would you please come over the back seat and whoop my ass? I need sense knocked into me right about now.
Me "Shut your f*ing mouth, you know damn good and well." As she had this explained over and over and my son has done reports on the subject.
Her "I just don't see the big deal and some people say it never really happened" translation - mom I want to start a debate about something just to disagree and I will find a sensitive subject even though I could never really have a battle of wits as I come unarmed, again, would you please pull over and give me the ass whooping of a life time, I think I REALLY need one.
Me "Shut the FU and don't act like an idiot." I am losing all control at this point and trying to drive.
We get home and she was fine in the car, but all of a sudden she doesn't want to carry her pack in saying I am going to get sick. I told her get her little ass back to the car and I could give a shit if she puked all the way there and back after what she said in the car. Puke to your little hearts content, that was just God reminding her he hears everything she says and a little hello. I proceed into our house. While outside she tells her brother she thought nazis were a boy band. She was lucky enough I wasn't out there and my son saw me cool off before repeating her, I think I would have tackled her. She knew damn good and well who they are, what they are, and what they stood for and did. And then she wants to put on the "I am a ditz" routine on top of it????
My oldest son went upstairs when he got in and made her bed for her when we got home, as she has not cleaned her room it will stick out like a sore thumb. He placed the book "beauty fades, dumb is forever" in the middle of the bed for her and told me. "mom, make sure you read that book too so you can make a test for her. He said that way you know if she read it and comprehends it. Any question she misses have a punishment for it set up in place already and let her know. And if she misses them make her reread it until she gets it right."
I told him "thanks mom"... Yeah, I think he will be alright. Blows my mind these two teens are only a year and a half apart. He also ran around and cleaned the living area, kitchen, bathrooms, and started a load of laundry and is out playing with the foot ball. I was worn out so hard core today I could get nothing done and he just zipped through and did it. I have spent my waking hours feeling like a ticking time bomb ready to blow today. Today my son is my God send... My daughter more along the lines of demon seed. I have not even started supper yet, she has a good few more hours to try and work me up. I already told her I do not even want to see her lips move the rest of the night unless it was yes ma'am coming out.
Boo I like the pic, I have to go find it but I had one that looks like that but it says how about a nice big cup of shut the f* up. That one describes me more LOL.
Purdy, I hope you get some rest and feel better. My evening is just starting...
OK, the teen daughter was picked up from school with the others and she has proven yes, she actually does need/want her ass kicked.
I am sitting having a nice conversation with my son about the girl he dumped. Yeah, no more hickey! I already told him he was better than and deserved better than any girl who would degrade herself in such a way. Any way he said I was right. Repeat - my kid said I WAS RIGHT! OK, after that bomb shell he goes on telling me he really needs to get to know the girls better before he dates them... like I said he should. This one would be nice to people in their face and when they would leave he said all she would do is put them down. He told her he did not like that and you should not be fake, don't pretend to be friends with people, it was just wrong. You have something to say to them say it. She did not stop so he dumped her. She said maybe some time later in the year? He told her when you learn to quit being rude, ha ha ha!
Then he started talking about the kids flying gang colors at school... led to conversations about idiots as a whole following more idiots, then to nazis. My son and I have some pretty deep conversations because he can. The idiot in the back seat then piped in... guess she needed to feel involved or the back of my hand, not sure which.
Short conversation, not a conversation really. Went a little like this and my translation.
Her "what is so wrong with nazis?" translation - Mom, I know our family got out in time from russian poland so I am blessed to be here alive, so would you please come over the back seat and whoop my ass? I need sense knocked into me right about now.
Me "Shut your f*ing mouth, you know damn good and well." As she had this explained over and over and my son has done reports on the subject.
Her "I just don't see the big deal and some people say it never really happened" translation - mom I want to start a debate about something just to disagree and I will find a sensitive subject even though I could never really have a battle of wits as I come unarmed, again, would you please pull over and give me the ass whooping of a life time, I think I REALLY need one.
Me "Shut the FU and don't act like an idiot." I am losing all control at this point and trying to drive.
We get home and she was fine in the car, but all of a sudden she doesn't want to carry her pack in saying I am going to get sick. I told her get her little ass back to the car and I could give a shit if she puked all the way there and back after what she said in the car. Puke to your little hearts content, that was just God reminding her he hears everything she says and a little hello. I proceed into our house. While outside she tells her brother she thought nazis were a boy band. She was lucky enough I wasn't out there and my son saw me cool off before repeating her, I think I would have tackled her. She knew damn good and well who they are, what they are, and what they stood for and did. And then she wants to put on the "I am a ditz" routine on top of it????
My oldest son went upstairs when he got in and made her bed for her when we got home, as she has not cleaned her room it will stick out like a sore thumb. He placed the book "beauty fades, dumb is forever" in the middle of the bed for her and told me. "mom, make sure you read that book too so you can make a test for her. He said that way you know if she read it and comprehends it. Any question she misses have a punishment for it set up in place already and let her know. And if she misses them make her reread it until she gets it right."
I told him "thanks mom"... Yeah, I think he will be alright. Blows my mind these two teens are only a year and a half apart. He also ran around and cleaned the living area, kitchen, bathrooms, and started a load of laundry and is out playing with the foot ball. I was worn out so hard core today I could get nothing done and he just zipped through and did it. I have spent my waking hours feeling like a ticking time bomb ready to blow today. Today my son is my God send... My daughter more along the lines of demon seed. I have not even started supper yet, she has a good few more hours to try and work me up. I already told her I do not even want to see her lips move the rest of the night unless it was yes ma'am coming out.
