Hugs And Comfort Badly Needed

[GreenFrog2]

Hi all,

I have been going through a really hard time over the last few weeks. Before that I had been doing OK, and was pretty happy with myself for that. But over the last few weeks I have been going downhill really fast.

I have no one near me to provide support, and have recently attempted to re-connect with family. I had some kind responses from a cousin and uncle / aunt, but have had no reply from my father and brothers. This has been on top of endless problems with work / money; PTSD, especially fear and more fear and all the usual crap that we have to deal with in out bad times; utter exhaustion (I can list all of the things I need to do, but don't have the energy to do anything about them); and the list of problems goes on and on........

I am over people suggesting that I "do this or try that" - it is only making me angry at the moment. What I really need is emotional support - hugs, and wishes of hope and wellness.

So I am asking that if you have read this, would you lease send me a simple message of hope, strength and comfort and as many hugs as you like! I am in such a dark place right now that this is all that I can cope with :banghead::banghead::banghead:

(Anyone else in need of this kind of support is welcome to pretend that they are getting them also!).

 

[Abstract]

Hi Greenfrog,
I understand being in that place where I take any advice and send myself into a deeper hole! It's like having no skin isn't it?

Sending you calmness, peace, strength and clarity of mind.

And a bucket of those hugs you wanted....

ooooooooooooooooooo

 

[Whitneys story]

Greenfrog2, I am right there with you. I am sorry you are experiencing this. Sending behemoth hugs, a day at the spa, a calming afternoon nap.

You have been working very hard. It is good to take a break and allow yourself some rewards. Congratulations on your progress.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

((((Greenfog)))))

I wish you peace of mind and calmness of heart. You are doing the best you can. I am sad that you are so discouraged, but greatly appreciate your being able to ask for what you need.

It is going to be ok. Everything is going to be ok one way or another.

Peace, comfort and many healing hugs.

 

[MagiLisu]

:hug:

Sorry to hear your struggling at the moment. It's tough at times but we will all get there one day!

 

[discarded]

We all need a good meaningful hug at times but many of us afraid to ask for fear of being turned down. Well done for asking and knowing what will help you at the moment.

((((((((meaningful hugs))))))))

 

[Tinyflame]

((((((((GreenFrog2))))))))

 

[Deleted member 12723]

More hugs for you:hug::hug:.

 

[Chincho]

:hug: (((((GreenFrog2))))) :hug:

 

[safenow]

Safe, gentle hugs, and lots of butterfly kisses. Fresh air and sunshine coming your way. Little butterflies flutter their wings on your cheek or other bare skin when they want to say they like you. They are very sweet little beings.

(((( GreenFrog2 )))), I am so proud of you for being able to ask for what you stand in need of.

 

[GreenFrog2]

Thank you all - I am falling apart and my usual soothing activities aren't really working - need as much of this as I can get.

 

[safenow]

Affirmations: Taken from the book,"Invisible Heroes: Survivors of Trauma and How They Heal." by Belleruth Naparstek.

I invite assistance from friends and loved ones, past, present, and future, to lend me their support and strength.
I see myself surrounded by their love and caring, and I feel it all through me like warm wave.

I hope this helps.