I Finally Figured Out What Happens To Me When I'm Intimate With My Husband Now

[Gs172003]

My brain goes one way. My body the other. It took alot of thinking to figure out a way to say that. If he does something that triggers me too much, flashback.

 

[shimmerz]

My brain goes one way. My body the other.

Very well put!

 

[Gs172003]

Very well put!

Thank you. Now can you tell me what that is and how to stop it?

 

[shimmerz]

I'll let you know when I figure it out myself. I have done a ton of work on myself.... I haven't even gotten to the sexual side of me yet. Not easy when one is in a relationship. Sorry @missy meier

 

[Deleted member 33052]

Missy, what does this mean? You dissociate?

 

[Gs172003]

Missy, what does this mean? You dissociate?

According to my therapist yes. And I caught myself doing it while on a walk with him the other day too. No idea why that time.