Relationship I've Walked Away :-(

[Bubbles215]

EveHarrington - believe me it isn't how I wanted to do it at all and especially like that. He wouldn't talk to me at all not even by phone for weeks and there was no other way it seemed. I guess I'm damaged after years of nasty and abusive relationships, to find someone like him was the best thing ever but I've really lost myself recently. I don't think he's even bothered to be honest with you. But hey it's ok he's still having a whale of a time so I see. Sorry, I know that sounds bitter but it's like salt in the wound seeing that.

 

[EveHarrington]

That stinks. At least you tried. It's on him now as he refused your calls. You did all that you could do and resorted to text as a last means. It's good that you said your piece and let it go.

 

[Bubbles215]

Thanks EveHarrington - your post means a lot. I did make it clear that I love him and that he has PTSD was not and never has been a deal breaker for me (my brother has had severe mental health issues for a long time) and while not the same at all I have perhaps more empathy than others. Maybe I'm just too damaged myself to deal with it - after all these years to meet a guy like him was amazing but these past few weeks have been too hard when I'm the only one shut out.