Just got out of a 2 year relationship and he keeps trying to suck me back in. Which has been a pattern the whole 2 years. This is bringing up issues of why I stayed and how my healthy radar was clearly off for this person. Just trying to put my thoughts in order to just move on and not let this person affect my wanting to have healthy relationships. I was diagnosed with PTSD 16 years ago. Most of those symptoms have resolved but clearly the choices I make have been affected and I need to work on getting back to a healthy mentality and away from this person and stay away from people who are just unhealthy. Sadly I feel that he used the fact I have PTSD to manipulate me and I will definitely be a lot more secretive in my future relationships, unfortunately trust is definitely a factor when you've been through trauma..