Leaving My Hubby

[jjh29]

Okay I need some words of encouragement. Last night my husband hit me and now I'm packing my stuff up this morning and getting out while he is at work. I can put up with a lot from him but I will not tolerate physical violence. So I might be posting on here more if this causes my symptoms to flare up in any way.

 

[nomedic1]

You have made the right choice, nothing excuse violence towards a partner.

 

[BewitchedBewildered]

You can't accept violence. I am so sorry you have to go through this.

Wishing you the best.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Please take care of yourself.

 

[caroline_13]

We are here for you. You will find your way.

 

[ms spock]

Good idea to get out when violence begins.


Do you have a psychologist or a psychiatrist to talk to?

 

[jjh29]

Yes I do have a T and thank god cause I am really gonna need her. Thanks guys. It's so hard but I'm not in any mental state for this crap. I have enough with my ptsd and don't need anything making my recovery worse. I'm making the best decision for me and my children.

 

[Court]

I'm very sorry it got to that point :( but I agree with the above post. Stay strong Hun! There are so many awesome people on this site and it has helped me a lot.

Courtney

 

[Raj]

Thank you for having the courage and strength to get out and do what you need to in order to take care of yourself! Violence is inexcusable. You are in my prayers.

 

[BigBear]

JJH29,

There is no excuse for hitting someone that you know has PTSD, ever. [Well maybe if they took the first swing] I haven't seen you saying that you have PTSD, but I'm thinking so. If it were me, I'd also leave a note asking him to get therapy about this. And I'd hide well enough that he couldn't track me down without my direct help.

Bear

 

[ashdawn8287]

Good for you for leaving. You do not deserve it. Use the forum we all will be here for you. Prayers your way hun.

 

[Loloma]

Please take care of yourself. It is a hard decision to make,especially when children are involved, Been there and done that. Stick with the forum as we will all support you as best we can.

Do you have a safe place to go?