My girlfriend has PTSD from an abusive previous relationship (not limited to sexual abuse). The relationship ended months ago and then when she was single, a guy tried to force her to give him oral (also months ago). She's also an addict that she's seeking help for. We've been friends for years and just started dating. She said she needs a lot of work done and isn't ready for sex but we kiss and cuddle when out in public. The other day when we were out i took her to do laundry and I noticed that a lot of her panties were sexy and when she bent over i noticed that she was wearing a thong. I asked her about it because I was genuinely confused and wanted to understand. She went off on me saying "What? Rape victims are only allowed to wear certain types of panties?! That's revolting and disgusting!" Since then she's been very angry with me. It makes me wonder if she's not AS damaged as she claims. Can someone help explain this?