intothelight
Sponsor
I have to agree that being nice is a choice and considering that many times my responses are a reaction to how I perceive the interaction, I can't say that my responses are always "nice". Would be wonderful to slow down enough to engage in conscientious decision making when interacting rather than reacting. Go into "fight" mode way to easily when I perceive a threat even if that perception is wrong. Would be interesting if I had a "nice" or "calm" default.