Friday
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Well it’s been a lively -read brutal- 30 hours at Casa de La Friday… so true to form (thank fawking every star) the moment I’m about to lose my mind entirely?
Sanity reasserts.
No. I do NOT traffick in guilt/shame/humiliation as currency. Never have. Never will. Try it? Rather than being direct? Get me IN your face telling you exactly why you are wrong, and no matter how much I might agree with what you want… how you’re going about trying to get it… will never get ANY traction. And most people? I will rear view mirror the FIRST time they try that bullshit. NVM whatever the hell round this is. Grrrr. I might should work on that. But it’s somewhere between 4 & 80 items down on the list. Also, not being seen for who I am, bit of a nonstarter. I’m not going to play along. Ever. Reality check yourself a different way in the future. Because if you need reassurance in who the hell you think I am? THIS is not the way to achieve that.
Yes. I am here. In your corner. You are not alone.
No. I will never be everything/all to you. And I know that. And am not attempting to try. I’m just me. Who loves you. Who doesn’t take shit. But will move heaven and earth, just the same.
f*cking hell, it’s so much easier to be on the other side of this, to be the person losing their mind, than the person who loves the one going ballistic.<<< I guess it’s a day for lessons.
Sanity reasserts.
No. I do NOT traffick in guilt/shame/humiliation as currency. Never have. Never will. Try it? Rather than being direct? Get me IN your face telling you exactly why you are wrong, and no matter how much I might agree with what you want… how you’re going about trying to get it… will never get ANY traction. And most people? I will rear view mirror the FIRST time they try that bullshit. NVM whatever the hell round this is. Grrrr. I might should work on that. But it’s somewhere between 4 & 80 items down on the list. Also, not being seen for who I am, bit of a nonstarter. I’m not going to play along. Ever. Reality check yourself a different way in the future. Because if you need reassurance in who the hell you think I am? THIS is not the way to achieve that.
Yes. I am here. In your corner. You are not alone.
No. I will never be everything/all to you. And I know that. And am not attempting to try. I’m just me. Who loves you. Who doesn’t take shit. But will move heaven and earth, just the same.
f*cking hell, it’s so much easier to be on the other side of this, to be the person losing their mind, than the person who loves the one going ballistic.<<< I guess it’s a day for lessons.
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