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Recognizing Men's Faces

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surviving_it_all

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I feel so weird. I have a weird dissociation. I thought I only did it with one person. That isn't true. I can't recognize men's faces. I generalize or something. It scares me so very much. I don't mean to do this. I wonder how this can be fixed. I can't believe I even do this. I don't mean to do this.
 
This was the most bizarre of the things I was experiencing that I found was related to PTSD. I asked about this soon after joining here and many people confessed to experiencing it. I had noticed this years before my PTSD diagnosis. It is not something you are "doing" consciously, and even when you're aware of it, it is hard to "fix".

I have learned to work around it as much as possible. If my husband is with me, he will whisper that someone we know is approaching us in a store, etc. and will tell me their name, and how I know them and any important details (new baby, house, etc.) We have always insisted that people call before stopping by and then I always focus on their vehicle, height, hair color, things I can remember. I do not experience this with women, so if they are with their spouse, I can deduct the identity of the man by recognizing the woman.

Ironically, I have no problems with still photos, video, etc. Social media has helped because I can look someone up on Facebook and "see" them and then get a picture in my brain that I can pull up when I meet them, although I still can't match them directly. It does seem to get better with frequent repetition. I can now recognize our male postal carrier and the repeat drivers for Fed Ex and UPS. Although, I'm not sure if I would recognize them on the street.

So, you are not weird, it is just another symptom that you have to deal with and work around. This was really scary for me too. Since I didn't even know I had PTSD, I was looking for all kinds of physical causes. I even had a MRI to rule out brain injury or tumor, etc. I can't say if it will subside, although I hope so, but you can work around it with a little creativity.
 
I can't recognise anyone's face. Never have been able to. Even meeting my sister, if she's wearing a coat I haven't seen before, I don't recognise her. I have trouble identifying myself in photos too, but usually I can because of what I'm wearing.

Watching a film is very hard unless the actors have different complexions, build, hair and mannerisms. If they're similar, I can't follow what's happening because I have no idea who's who.

I can't register whether people wear glasses or have facial hair, either. It's definitely something about the face.

I never thought of it as dissociation.
 
I too have always struggled to recognise people, Even people I know very well, and its the same whether it is a live person or a picture. I have learned to cope by remembering voices, and yes, using hubby as a resource to keep me right.

I too had never considered it to be dissociation - just a little - but inconvenient - quirk.
 
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