In trying to keep perspective that I would probably be emotionally out of sorts myself (my N. lost one of his dogs yesterday :( ) I decided to make a list of the reasons he is amazing (at least to me). Maybe this will help take the sting out of the mood swings over the last couple days.
1. He's the funniest person I think I've ever met
2. He treats me like a princess (definitely not something I've ever experienced)
3. He doesn't judge me or some of the things I've done.
4. We understand each other's need to be alone sometimes and how to deal with each others anxiety issues.
5. Beneath the big tough guy soldier exterior is one of the sweetest people I've ever known.
I'm no picnic myself with social anxiety and depression but somehow we make it work. We annoy and piss each other off at least once a week but always manage to work on fixing the problems in our relationship. It makes me sad honestly to see so many of the relationships here ending as of late that I really wanted to post something positive here.
He's not always Mr. Niceguy but he does try to not take out his anger and emootions on me and for that I'm very thankful.
1. He's the funniest person I think I've ever met
2. He treats me like a princess (definitely not something I've ever experienced)
3. He doesn't judge me or some of the things I've done.
4. We understand each other's need to be alone sometimes and how to deal with each others anxiety issues.
5. Beneath the big tough guy soldier exterior is one of the sweetest people I've ever known.
I'm no picnic myself with social anxiety and depression but somehow we make it work. We annoy and piss each other off at least once a week but always manage to work on fixing the problems in our relationship. It makes me sad honestly to see so many of the relationships here ending as of late that I really wanted to post something positive here.
He's not always Mr. Niceguy but he does try to not take out his anger and emootions on me and for that I'm very thankful.