Sorry I Have Not Been Here, My Husband Finally Died At Home.

[nursenurse]

Hi Gizmo,

You have the most wonderful attitude. When the Ex Boy's father died, my mother in law was beside herself, and it wasn't just about the grief she felt over the loss of the love of her life. She had lost her "job', so to speak, because her days had been filled with the role of care giver. Nobody wishes anyone dead for sure, but there comes a time where you do wish for bodily as well as spiritual peace whether for yourself or your loved one. While God is enfolding your husband above, I will pray that He continue to embrace you, your daughter, and your grandchildren here below. And that your daughter's ex continues to be smoke and mirrors. Amen.

 

[The Albatross]

Sincere condolences to you Giz and your family, I am glad that you had hospice support and that he was able to remain at home.
You can be proud that you honored your husband to the end by providing him the best care you could muster with devotion and grace.

Good news that your daughter has a permanent restraining order as well and that he has the good sense to leave her alone.

Welcome back, gal. :hug:

 

[myvetswife]

Very sorry to hear that.

 

[nimkekaa]

Big Hugs Gizmo! I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how much you loved your husband by all that you have written on this forum. He was so lucky to have such a wonder wife by his side when he was so sick.

Take good care of yourself!

 

[Loloma]

Dear Gizmo, sorry for your loss. I am glad you were there for hubby when he past away. You are a brave and wonderful woman who has been through so much.

Welcome back we all missed you. Take care of yourself and take it slowly.

 

[Meadowsweet]

Best wishes and peace to you and your family Gizmo.[DOUBLEPOST=1371744547][/DOUBLEPOST]Best wishes and peace to you and your family Gizmo.

 

[Tinyflame]

Dear dear Giz, so good to hear fom you, have been thinking of you like crazy and almost asked if anyone knew. I'm sorry about you're husband, but am glad you had so much love and good times. He was so blessed to have you there.

Also glad the other calmed down a bit.

(((((((((((Sweet Giz)))))))))), with much love :hug: .

 

[Maggiemay]

*big huggles * xxx

 

[Spiderallis]

((((lots of hugs)))) Not sure what to say, so more hugs (((gizmo)))

 

[WillThereBeCake]

I am very sorry for your loss Gizmo.

 

[Ice_Fire]

(((((Gizmo))))) I've missed you. I'm so sorry about your husband's passing. :hug:

 

[Deleted member 12723]

Thank you so much for everything you said and meant. I so appreciate it so very much.

I had my hands full of taking care of my husband for the past few months. He went so fast.

His memorial service was very touching and a lot of people came and talked about him.

I am trying to stay busy. Today I went through our clothes and got rid of a lot of stuff. I also went through the papers and cleaned that stuff out.

My son in law has been coming over once a week to help me out out and cleans my house. He will come over tomorrow or Saturday and take all the trash bags of stuff and clean my house.

I hold in my heart all of the kind things you said.

I am slowly learning to be a single person once again.

I have to admit that I am not worrying about my husband anymore. It is a relief not to be stressed out about him.

I do not have the anxiety I had.

He never fell and broke anything. I was doing everything for him.

My daughter is in the middle of a divorce.

I need to make a new will. I have so many places to go to get everything in my name.

I got a memorial tattoo on my arm of two dolphins swimming together in life. It was special to me and my husband. I miss him so much. But I am finally grieving the insidious diseases my husband had.

I know he is in a better place and with my son now.

I accomplished a lot today. I am slowly going through the house getting rid of papers we do not need and other things.

My daughter and her girls are doing so much better now.

No more drama. I do not want to have anymore drama in my life.

I am at a new beginning. My heart so appreciates all of your loving and supportive words. Thank you all of you for being such caring people. I so appreciate it.

Thank you also for the warm welcome back. I certainly missed all of you but thank you for understanding that my hand were full of taking care of my husband. Big hugs to all of you. Thank you so much for being yourselves and caring.