The Difference Between Boundaries And Ultimatums

[redsandy]

He isn't diagnosed yet - he's still in the military, he has good rank and has 23 years infantry service, 10 tours.
It's all my fault,,,,there's nothing wrong with what he's doing ______ said the man in denial who is so frustrated inside it makes me cry. :(

 

[redsandy]

And I'd like to say that recently he unilaterally took a posting 7 hrs away leaving me unaccompanied for 2 years with 5 boys and very little contact because he's too busy filling a welfare position,,, basically he's helpinge very one else, being their saviour and treating me like poo, leaving me confused.

 

[Deleted member 12723]

I think that is so very sad to be left alone with children without his help.:hug:

 

[Sweetpea76]

Nobody gets to tell you how you feel or what you find acceptable in a relationship. Only you. Period.

You didn't make him lie. You didn't make him cheat. He is a grown man who made his own decisions.