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Therapy For Paranoid Thoughts

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It is cause for concern. You reached out, and I'm concerned. Please take pause, I don't think your thoughts are your friend at the moment. But you have trusted your T till now - hold onto that. You wouldn't have trusted your T if they hadn't earned that trust. So ask your T for help - you don't have to feel this distressed.
 
I don't trust her now though.

I trust my doctor but I've been seeing him a lot longer. He knows I have bad thoughts. He won't judge me I think because I've already seen his reaction although it wasn't for paranoid thoughts.

This conversation is too much for me. I need to go.

I'm sorry.

Thank you.
 
We are here for you Eve. As I read these posts others have written many care for you, you are not alone!! Please remember that you do not have to carry this weight all by yourself. Don't try and think too hard just remember you are cared for. See your doctor who you trust and don't try and jump all the hurdles at once let him guide you. I think we all understand what its like to walk on the edge of sanity trying to hang on, you WILL find solace. wish I could be there with you to help but I am with you in spirit, take care.
 
I need to run far, far away.
Could be an incomplete flight response.

I can see how childhood sexual abuse could give a person the impression that everyone is out to get them. For a long time, significant people in your life actually were. Hypervigilance was survival. Now, it isn't true anymore, but your brain has gotten stuck in the past and keeps you constantly alert. It thinks it's helping. Trauma therapy does eventually help the brain develop a more informed view of the present, but it takes some time.

I'm not trying to convince you one way or another, but it all seems logical to me.
 
I'm ready.

Monday morning I will be calling my doctor. Only once in 10+ years has he not been able to see me the same week that I call. Sometimes he can even see me the same day/next day.

The funny thing is that i had a real threat thrown my way and that's when I realized I can indeed fight this paranoia stuff. I say "funny" because it's the "not real" paranoid thoughts that blindside me and bring me to my knees, but an actual real world threat brings out the fight in me so I can say oh no, I can beat this! I see it as a kick in the pants that showed me that I can indeed fight these thoughts.

I did a bit of research on therapy for paranoia and it seems that CBT is used. I've done a little bit of CBT in the past.
 
I picked up a number of the books on paranoia at my local library. One has potential it seems as it presents paranoia in a straightforward way, doesn't give into paranoia stereotypes and uses CBT. Another is more about paranoia in society and how we've become a paranoid nation-----not particularly helpful to me.

The third book (Understanding Paranoia) actually disappoints me (understatement). It's written by a psychiatrist who has written many books on different psychiatric ailments. Clue number one that he's not an expert on paranoia per se-----I mean trauma experts who write about trauma stick with trauma and don't go off writing books on bipolar disorder or schizophrenia or----- He falls prey to the use of stereotypical descriptors-----sadomasochism, extremely violent, etc and paints a bleak picture of the paranoid individual. How paranoid people speak? I don't think you can lump this into a one size fits all descriptor. How paranoid people look? Ditto! Paranoid people are thin, mutter, are tense, reserved, and so on. And while I don't doubt that ---some--- with paranoia have these attributes, painting all paranoid people in this light does a great disservice to us all. I'm not diagnosed but I know I have paranoid issues. I'm ----somewhere---- on the paranoia spectrum. If another person like me came along and picked up this book, their reaction may be "that's not me in the least, I'm nothing like what's described!" and may move on thinking it's not a paranoia issue. The book is about paranoia in general (based on the title) and not just in reference to more severe forms of paranoia. It's a guide for professionals, families and sufferers-----God help the people led astray by this book! I've found other books on paranoia that don't paint a bleak, stereotypical and harmful picture of paranoid people. Sad thing is, the book has decent reviews on Amazon. (I know that doesn't say much.) With books like this spreading such crap, no wonder paranoid people keep it under wraps. If this is what society thinks about a paranoid individual, no way I'm revealing my paranoia struggles to anyone other than my doctor and therapist. Back cover------ "...spouses who beat or kill their partners....are all among the possibly paranoid..." Wow, just wow. I don't see this book being all that professional. I need to return it to the library ASAP before the stereotypical descriptions upset me even more. (How does the wife beating comment add anything positive or truthful to the discussion? Wife beaters are potentially paranoid? Assumptions.)

I'll stick with the book that focuses on CBT.
 
Hi,
First time here.

I have been invested in DBT for years. Eventually, found trauma therapist using this model. Author: Marsha Linehan

Book and workbook. I attend weekly group meetings and have homework. This allows for me to see things which otherwise, I don't know. ( didnt learn from a most ineffective family system.)

I'm learning to counter the effects of my cognitive distortions and apply new safe and acceptable changes a little at a time. I have my group, therapist and a penchant for changing, yet, being knowledgeable in this journey is so important for me. I need evidence of how it works. Linehan is widely used for all persons with a past with trauma. For me it means everyone. I wish it were taught in schools. Extremely progressive and varifiable. DBT Dialectic Behavior Therapy.
 
I saw my psych and he told me my mistrust and suspicions are due to PTSD and trauma.

The EXACT scenario I used in the office as an example of my "paranoia" came true when I got home. (Which was odd------I had dozens of examples to choose from.) So am I paranoid or just hyper aware? (I didn't prompt what happened; it blindsided me.) Maybe somehow, someway my brain sensed it was coming and that's why I used that example. My brain is trying to keep me safe but I'm naively thinking that it's some sort of "problem". If I had trusted my gut instincts years ago I wouldn't be in this mess.
 
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