General What Are You Getting Out Of This?

[Ketamine Dreams]

I totally get what you are going through. I had a milestone birthday last year and my wife (sufferer), didn't plan anything so my sisters did. Then my wife left the party early saying using work as an excuse, (it was earlier than she would go to bed had we not been out.

It can be tough sometimes, and I'm glad he came through for you!

 

[InlovewithaPTSDvet]

Glad you had a great day. I read your posts and so much resonated with me., I've learnt gradually to just let him get on with what he wants to do and be with him when he wants it. It's hard though and very lonely at times.

Hubby had a birthday March and I made more of an effort myself this year. Before I really understood what PTSD was and just thought he was a selfish pig a lot of the time, id got into the bad habit of bothering just as little with his birthday and Christmas as he did mine.......

Now with a proper diagnosis and after therapy we are making much more of an effort.