When do you decide it isn't working?

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Thank you for all of the responses. She did suggest I go to one of her group DBT sessions. I was a little hesitant about that but I gave it a try this morning & maybe there is a method to her madness. She isn't quite as clueless as I thought. It was a very very insightful morning & maybe it's something I need to do before I will progress any further with her in therapy. Definitely eye opening & I realize she WAS trying to push me to do the work...I just don't have all of the skills I need yet. :) She is clearly capable & knowledgeable. I should have listened to her sooner & joined the class when she suggested it.